more honored in the breach

Coined by William Shakespeare in 1602 in "Hamlet," act 1, scene 4:

But to my mind, though I am native here

And to the manner born, it is a custom

More honored in the breach than the observance.

more honored in the breach

1. Justifiably violated; endowing greater moral standing to those who disobey. (of a rule, custom, etc.)
2. Frequently or usually broken in practice, with obedience being the exception. (of a rule, custom, etc.)

• honor in the breach
• to the manner born