Proxy marriage

 

 

Starting in the Middle Ages, European monarchs and nobility sometimes married by proxy; by the end of the 19th century the practice had largely died out.^[3] Some examples of this are:

• Henry IV to Joanna of Navarre, the daughter of Charles d'Évreux, King of Navarre, on April 2, 1402
• Lorenzo de'Medici to Clarice Orsini, in 1469
• Catherine of Aragon to Prince Arthur, in 1501
• Margaret Tudor to James IV, in 1503
• Mary Tudor, Queen of France, to Louis XII, in 1514
• James VI and I to Anne of Denmark, on 20 August 1589
• Anne of Austria to Louis XIII, on October 18, 1615
• Charles I of England to Henrietta Maria of France, on May 1, 1625
• Marie Antoinette to Louis-Auguste, on April 19, 1770
• Napoleon I of France to Austrian Archduchess Marie Louise, in 1810

In 1490, Maximilian of Habsburg (the future Holy Roman Emperor, Maximilian I) married Anne of Brittany by proxy; he was represented at the wedding by Wolfgang von Polheim.^[4] As part of the symbolism of the proxy wedding, on the wedding night Polheim went to bed with Anne but wore a full suit of armour, covering all but his right leg and hand. A sword was placed between them in the bed.^[5][6]

A famous 17th-century painting by Peter Paul Rubens depicts the proxy marriage of Marie de' Medici in 1600.

During the First and Second World Wars, there were many proxy marriages between soldiers serving at the front and women back at home; they often participated in the wedding ceremony via telephone.

During the First World War, proxy marriage was permitted by law in Belgium, France, Germany, Norway, Czechoslovakia and Italy.^[7] On 4 April 1915 proxy marriage was legalised in France.^[8]

During the Second World War, proxy marriages were common in the US, UK, Soviet Union and Nazi Germany where obtaining leave to return home and marry was difficult or impossible.^[9][10][11] During this period, Kansas City, Kansas, in particular was known for its permissive proxy-marriage laws; one lawyer in the city helped to arrange 39 proxy weddings.^[12]

In Italy, between 1945 and 1976, 12,000 women were married by proxy to Italian Australian men; they would then travel to Australia to meet their new husbands.^[13]

As of 2015^[update], various Internet sites were offering to arrange proxy and double-proxy marriages for a fee, although the service can generally be set up by any lawyer in a jurisdiction that permits proxy marriage. Video conferencing allows couples to experience the ceremony together.^[14] A unique "space wedding" took place on August 10, 2003, when Ekaterina Dmitriev, an American citizen living in the U.S. state of Texas, where the ceremony was performed, was married by proxy to Yuri Malenchenko, a cosmonaut who was orbiting the Earth in the International Space Station at the time.^[15]

Proxy marriage is legal in The Gambia under sharia law.^[16]

Proxy marriages via video link are legal in India, including when the parties are in separate countries, provided witnesses are present.^[17]

Proxy marriages, including via the telephone, are legal in Pakistan. However, witnesses must be present and the marriage correctly registered.^[18]

In the United States, proxy marriages are provided for in law or by customary practice in Texas, Colorado, Kansas, and Montana.^[19][20][21] Of these, Montana is the only state that allows double-proxy marriage.^[22] Proxy marriages cannot be solemnized in any other U.S. states.^[23]

In 1924, a federal court recognized the proxy marriage of a resident of Portugal, where proxy marriages were recognized at the time, and a resident of Pennsylvania, where common-law marriages could be contracted at the time.^[24] The Portuguese woman was allowed to immigrate to the United States on account of the marriage, whereas she would have been inadmissible otherwise due to being illiterate.^[24] Internet marriages have increased among some U.S. immigrant communities in recent years.^[25]

During the early 1900s, United States proxy marriages increased significantly when many Japanese picture brides arrived at Angel Island, California. Since the early 20th century, it has been most commonly used in the United States for marriages where one partner is a member of the military on active duty.^[26] In California, proxy marriage is only available to deployed military personnel. In Montana, a double-proxy marriage is available if at least one partner is either on active military duty or is a Montana resident.^[22] In the United States if a proxy marriage has been performed in a state that legally allows it many states will recognize it fully or will recognize it as a common law marriage. An exception to this is the state of Iowa, where it is completely unrecognized.^[27]

Germany does not allow proxy marriages within its jurisdiction (§ 1311 BGB). It recognizes proxy marriages contracted elsewhere where this is possible, subject to the usual rules of private international law, unless the foreign law should be incompatible with German ordre public (art. 6 EGBGB): this is not the case with the marriage by proxy per se, but would be if, e. g., the proxy was held responsible for choosing the spouse without further asking rather than only contracting a marriage with a given spouse.

Proxy marriage was argued for in the House of Commons by Jennie Adamson in 1943.^[7]

In 2014 it was reported that "proxy marriage misuse" was common in the UK, in which an EU citizen and non-EU citizen, both living in the UK, participated in a proxy marriage in an outside country. These were sham marriages which allowed one spouse to gain EU citizenship.^[28] This was particularly the case with nikah marriages in Islam, which are conducted under Sharia (Islamic) law.^[29][30]

Citizens Advice Scotland warns that "It may be extremely difficult to prove that a marriage by proxy is a valid marriage, both legally and for claiming benefits."^[31]

Catholic canon law permits marriage by proxy,^[32] but requires officiants to receive authorization from the local ordinary before proceeding.^[33]

Jewish law permits marriage by proxy. The process includes the groom sending the worth of a small denominational coin (שוה פרוטה), to the bride as discussed in Tractate Kiddushin Second Chapter. All Rabbis agree that it is preferable to betroth in person based on the dictum "It is more fitting that the mitzva be performed by the man himself than by means of his agent".^[34]

הָאִישׁ מְקַדֵּשׁ בּוֹ וּבִשְׁלוּחוֹ הָאִשָּׁה מִתְקַדֶּשֶׁת בָּהּ וּבִשְׁלוּחָהּ הָאִישׁ מְקַדֵּשׁ אֶת בִּתּוֹ כְּשֶׁהִיא נַעֲרָה בּוֹ וּבִשְׁלוּחוֹ

Translation: A man can betroth a woman by himself or by means of his agent. Similarly, a woman can become betrothed by herself or by means of her agent. A man can betroth his daughter to a man when she is a young woman, either by himself or by means of his agent. ^[35]

Nikah marriages in Islam may be permitted by proxy, simply by both parties (or representatives on their behalf) exchanging declarations.^[29][30]

While not explicitly stated, a proxy marriage is generally not allowed in Hindu cultures due to the Saptapadi rite, where the bride and groom walk seven steps together in unison, with each step representing a vow.^[36] Under the circumstances of a proxy marriage, this step would not be possible.

• Operation 'I Do': Moody AFB Attorneys Help Couple Tie Knot
• Ernest G. Lorenzen, "Marriage By Proxy and the Conflict of Laws" (1932)
• Double Proxy Marriage in Montana (limited to Montana residents and active duty military personnel, all branches)