civil unions? marriage?
October 25, 2006 12:26 PM Subscribe
NJ says yes to same-sex marriage! (altho it might not be called that in the end) -- link to pdf of ruling here.
Way to energize the Republican base!
Gah! I'm sorry. This is just all-around good news. But right now everything I read I place in the context of its effect on November 7.
On preview... what everybody else seems to be thinking.
posted by gurple at 12:31 PM on October 25, 2006
Gah! I'm sorry. This is just all-around good news. But right now everything I read I place in the context of its effect on November 7.
On preview... what everybody else seems to be thinking.
posted by gurple at 12:31 PM on October 25, 2006
Who cares what it's called, equality is the issue and citizens of New Jersey have won. Good work, Garden State!
posted by NationalKato at 12:32 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by NationalKato at 12:32 PM on October 25, 2006
Start the countdown to man on dog sex.
But seriously, great result, but it would have been better achieved through a legislation or a plebiscite, and it's terrible timing.
posted by orthogonality at 12:32 PM on October 25, 2006
But seriously, great result, but it would have been better achieved through a legislation or a plebiscite, and it's terrible timing.
posted by orthogonality at 12:32 PM on October 25, 2006
the AP's take: AP
NJ court stops short of gay marriage OK---New Jersey's highest court ruled Wednesday that gay couples are entitled to the same rights as heterosexuals, but that lawmakers must determine whether the state will honor gay marriage or some other form of civil union. ...
posted by amberglow at 12:33 PM on October 25, 2006
NJ court stops short of gay marriage OK---New Jersey's highest court ruled Wednesday that gay couples are entitled to the same rights as heterosexuals, but that lawmakers must determine whether the state will honor gay marriage or some other form of civil union. ...
posted by amberglow at 12:33 PM on October 25, 2006
George Bush's stance on the issue back in 2004:
"President Bush said in an interview this past weekend that he disagreed with the Republican Party platform opposing civil unions of same-sex couples and that the matter should be left up to the states."posted by ericb at 12:34 PM on October 25, 2006
"Mr. Bush has previously said that states should be permitted to allow same-sex unions, even though White House officials have said he would not have endorsed such unions as governor of Texas. But Mr. Bush has never before made a point of so publicly disagreeing with his party's official position on the issue."
"In an interview on Sunday with Charles Gibson, an anchor of "Good Morning America" on ABC, Mr. Bush said, "I don't think we should deny people rights to a civil union, a legal arrangement, if that's what a state chooses to do so." ABC, which broadcast part of the interview on Monday, is to broadcast the part about civil unions on Tuesday."....
"I view the definition of marriage different from legal arrangements that enable people to have rights. And I strongly believe that marriage ought to be defined as between a union between a man and a woman. Now, having said that, states ought to be able to have the right to pass laws that enable people to be able to have rights like others."
the NYT: ...The court gave the legislature a six-month deadline to enact the necessary legislation to provide for same-sex unions. ...
posted by amberglow at 12:36 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 12:36 PM on October 25, 2006
I wonder how and if this will play into the Foley scandal--and the recent Crist outing also in FL.
posted by amberglow at 12:38 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 12:38 PM on October 25, 2006
Reading the summary from Amberglow's link, this is wonderful news, and probably won't get the Republican base too riled up.
I still wish the decision had been delayed by a couple of weeks.
posted by bshort at 12:39 PM on October 25, 2006
I still wish the decision had been delayed by a couple of weeks.
posted by bshort at 12:39 PM on October 25, 2006
and 8 more states have anti-marriage amendments on the ballot in November
posted by amberglow at 12:44 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 12:44 PM on October 25, 2006
This is great! And it's leaving it to the elected officials to name it (going straight from here to AskMe to ask for suggested names), so fundies can't scream about 'activist judges.'
Hooray! I am so proud of the Garden State!
posted by CaptApollo at 12:46 PM on October 25, 2006
Hooray! I am so proud of the Garden State!
posted by CaptApollo at 12:46 PM on October 25, 2006
At a crossroads on gay unions
By John Lewis, 10/25/2003
FROM TIME to time, America comes to a crossroads. With confusion and controversy, it's hard to spot that moment. We need cool heads, warm hearts, and America's core principles to cleanse away the distractions.
We are now at such a crossroads over same-sex couples' freedom to marry. It is time to say forthrightly that the government's exclusion of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters from civil marriage officially degrades them and their families. It denies them the basic human right to marry the person they love. It denies them numerous legal protections for their families.
This discrimination is wrong. We cannot keep turning our backs on gay and lesbian Americans. I have fought too hard and too long against discrimination based on race and color not to stand up against discrimination based on sexual orientation. I've heard the reasons for opposing civil marriage for same-sex couples. Cut through the distractions, and they stink of the same fear, hatred, and intolerance I have known in racism and in bigotry.
Some say let's choose another route and give gay folks some legal rights but call it something other than marriage. We have been down that road before in this country. Separate is not equal. The rights to liberty and happiness belong to each of us and on the same terms, without regard to either skin color or sexual orientation.
Some say they are uncomfortable with the thought of gays and lesbians marrying. But our rights as Americans do not depend on the approval of others. Our rights depend on us being Americans.
Sometimes it takes courts to remind us of these basic principles. In 1948, when I was 8 years old, 30 states had bans on interracial marriage, courts had upheld the bans many times, and 90 percent of the public disapproved of those marriages, saying they were against the definition of marriage, against God's law. But that year, the California Supreme Court became the first court in America to strike down such a ban. Thank goodness some court finally had the courage to say that equal means equal, and others rightly followed, including the US Supreme Court 19 years later.
Some stand on the ground of religion, either demonizing gay people or suggesting that civil marriage is beyond the Constitution. But religious rites and civil rights are two separate entities. What's at stake here is legal marriage, not the freedom of every religion to decide on its own religious views and ceremonies.
I remember the words of John Kennedy when his presidential candidacy was challenged because of his faith: "I believe in an America that is officially neither Catholic, Protestant, nor Jewish -- where no public official either requests or accepts instructions on public policy from the pope, the National Council of Churches, or any other ecclesiastical source -- where no religious body seeks to impose its will directly or indirectly upon the general populace or the public acts of its officials -- and where religious liberty is so indivisible that an act against one church is treated as an act against all."
Those words ring particularly true today. We hurt our fellow citizens and our community when we deny gay people civil marriage and its protections and responsibilities. Rather than divide and discriminate, let us come together and create one nation. We are all one people. We all live in the American house. We are all the American family. Let us recognize that the gay people living in our house share the same hopes, troubles, and dreams. It's time we treated them as equals, as family.
John Lewis, a Democratic congressman from Georgia, was one of the original speakers at the 1963 March on Washington and is author of "Walking With the Wind: A Memoir of the Movement."
posted by halekon at 12:47 PM on October 25, 2006 [5 favorites]
By John Lewis, 10/25/2003
FROM TIME to time, America comes to a crossroads. With confusion and controversy, it's hard to spot that moment. We need cool heads, warm hearts, and America's core principles to cleanse away the distractions.
We are now at such a crossroads over same-sex couples' freedom to marry. It is time to say forthrightly that the government's exclusion of our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters from civil marriage officially degrades them and their families. It denies them the basic human right to marry the person they love. It denies them numerous legal protections for their families.
This discrimination is wrong. We cannot keep turning our backs on gay and lesbian Americans. I have fought too hard and too long against discrimination based on race and color not to stand up against discrimination based on sexual orientation. I've heard the reasons for opposing civil marriage for same-sex couples. Cut through the distractions, and they stink of the same fear, hatred, and intolerance I have known in racism and in bigotry.
Some say let's choose another route and give gay folks some legal rights but call it something other than marriage. We have been down that road before in this country. Separate is not equal. The rights to liberty and happiness belong to each of us and on the same terms, without regard to either skin color or sexual orientation.
Some say they are uncomfortable with the thought of gays and lesbians marrying. But our rights as Americans do not depend on the approval of others. Our rights depend on us being Americans.
Sometimes it takes courts to remind us of these basic principles. In 1948, when I was 8 years old, 30 states had bans on interracial marriage, courts had upheld the bans many times, and 90 percent of the public disapproved of those marriages, saying they were against the definition of marriage, against God's law. But that year, the California Supreme Court became the first court in America to strike down such a ban. Thank goodness some court finally had the courage to say that equal means equal, and others rightly followed, including the US Supreme Court 19 years later.
Some stand on the ground of religion, either demonizing gay people or suggesting that civil marriage is beyond the Constitution. But religious rites and civil rights are two separate entities. What's at stake here is legal marriage, not the freedom of every religion to decide on its own religious views and ceremonies.
I remember the words of John Kennedy when his presidential candidacy was challenged because of his faith: "I believe in an America that is officially neither Catholic, Protestant, nor Jewish -- where no public official either requests or accepts instructions on public policy from the pope, the National Council of Churches, or any other ecclesiastical source -- where no religious body seeks to impose its will directly or indirectly upon the general populace or the public acts of its officials -- and where religious liberty is so indivisible that an act against one church is treated as an act against all."
Those words ring particularly true today. We hurt our fellow citizens and our community when we deny gay people civil marriage and its protections and responsibilities. Rather than divide and discriminate, let us come together and create one nation. We are all one people. We all live in the American house. We are all the American family. Let us recognize that the gay people living in our house share the same hopes, troubles, and dreams. It's time we treated them as equals, as family.
John Lewis, a Democratic congressman from Georgia, was one of the original speakers at the 1963 March on Washington and is author of "Walking With the Wind: A Memoir of the Movement."
posted by halekon at 12:47 PM on October 25, 2006 [5 favorites]
all the GOP needs now is a gay adoption ruling. they're almost there.
posted by matteo at 12:48 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by matteo at 12:48 PM on October 25, 2006
It's a sad sign that we right-thinking liberals have been cowed for so long that we could ever consider this bad news. Rejoice. Progress appears to be marching on, and I, for one, hope this portends the upcoming Great Democratic Renaissance.
Middle America is waking up to the fact that conservatism, as practiced today, is, at heart, mean-spirited and doctrinaire. While this is still a contentious issue, there is an innoculative effect when the public is confronted with it over and over. Americans, by and large, believe in fair play. Same-sex unions will come to pass.
posted by Benny Andajetz at 12:51 PM on October 25, 2006
Middle America is waking up to the fact that conservatism, as practiced today, is, at heart, mean-spirited and doctrinaire. While this is still a contentious issue, there is an innoculative effect when the public is confronted with it over and over. Americans, by and large, believe in fair play. Same-sex unions will come to pass.
posted by Benny Andajetz at 12:51 PM on October 25, 2006
The timing could not be worse. It's as if Karl Rove picked the date for the decision to come out. This completely undoes all of the damage done by the Foley scandal. Two more years of GOP control of both the Senate and the House.
posted by caddis at 12:52 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by caddis at 12:52 PM on October 25, 2006
the couples involved have been in the courts since June 2002
posted by amberglow at 12:54 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 12:54 PM on October 25, 2006
thanks for posting that, halekon: Some say they are uncomfortable with the thought of gays and lesbians marrying. But our rights as Americans do not depend on the approval of others. Our rights depend on us being Americans.
posted by amberglow at 12:56 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 12:56 PM on October 25, 2006
I hope I don't need a "jk" after that. But just in case...
posted by dead_ at 12:56 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by dead_ at 12:56 PM on October 25, 2006
dude, it's Jersey. the toxic waste has mutated all residents into hermaphrodites anyway, so they probably figured 'what the hell?'
posted by jonmc at 12:57 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by jonmc at 12:57 PM on October 25, 2006
Getting elected without principles or positions is not much of a victory. This is a victory--one that we were wrongfully denied in WA and NY.
posted by amberglow at 12:59 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 12:59 PM on October 25, 2006
Interesting note - the decision was 4-3, and the 3 in the minority aren't opposed to same-sex marriage; they feel the ruling did not go far enough, that the ruling should have been to make same-sex marriage legal in NJ. People can say what they like about timing and all, but I am extra proud to be from New Jersey today.
For local opinion: NJ.com, basically the Star Ledger's website.
posted by booksherpa at 1:03 PM on October 25, 2006
For local opinion: NJ.com, basically the Star Ledger's website.
posted by booksherpa at 1:03 PM on October 25, 2006
Gay Marriage Proponents Hope To Send Message To Religious Right Before Election
posted by brain_drain at 1:05 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by brain_drain at 1:05 PM on October 25, 2006
Getting elected without principles or positions is not much of a victory.
losing the fourth election in a row is not much of a victory, either
posted by matteo at 1:05 PM on October 25, 2006
losing the fourth election in a row is not much of a victory, either
posted by matteo at 1:05 PM on October 25, 2006
Eh, someone will always complain about the timing.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 1:08 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by KirkJobSluder at 1:08 PM on October 25, 2006
This is a victory--one that we were wrongfully denied in WA and NY.
To that point... I don't know much about the NJ case and its political environment, but in WA, a lot of people seem to believe that, had the case gone the way it should have, there would have been an anti-gay-marriage amendment before the legislature before you could open the first bottle of champagne. Such an amendment probably wouldn't have passed, but some pro-gay-marriage folks here were actually breathing a sigh of relief that the King County case _wasn't_ won, at least not this time.
So, what happens now in NJ? Is it a clearer victory there than it might have been in WA?
posted by gurple at 1:09 PM on October 25, 2006
To that point... I don't know much about the NJ case and its political environment, but in WA, a lot of people seem to believe that, had the case gone the way it should have, there would have been an anti-gay-marriage amendment before the legislature before you could open the first bottle of champagne. Such an amendment probably wouldn't have passed, but some pro-gay-marriage folks here were actually breathing a sigh of relief that the King County case _wasn't_ won, at least not this time.
So, what happens now in NJ? Is it a clearer victory there than it might have been in WA?
posted by gurple at 1:09 PM on October 25, 2006
That Onion piece pretty much describes what happend in the '04 elections. This issue probably gave us four years of GW.
posted by caddis at 1:09 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by caddis at 1:09 PM on October 25, 2006
I think it might help the GOP only in the 8 states (Arizona, Colorado, Idaho, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Virginia, Wisconsin) that have the amendments on the ballots--it'll drive up turnout there--Allen definitely gets helped in VA, i think, unfortunately.
posted by amberglow at 1:09 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 1:09 PM on October 25, 2006
I guess it came too late for Vito Spatafore.
posted by pardonyou? at 1:12 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by pardonyou? at 1:12 PM on October 25, 2006
This decision will make for VERY interesting debates in the NJ Legislature in the near future. New Jersey has the potential to be the tipping point in the status of single-sex marriage in the United States.
The biggest fear of conservatives has been the ability of same-sex couples to "spread" same-sex marriage outside of any state where it is currently legal. Right now, only Massachusetts allows for gay marriage. Due to the outrageously bigoted application of a long-unenforced 1913 law (which prevents out of state couples from being married in MA if their home state will not allow the marriage), single-sex marriage has effectively been "contained" in Massachusetts. (Note, this may change once Deval Patrick is elected governor, but who knows).
New Jersey has no such equivalent of MA's 1913 law, so if NJ were to allow same-sex marriages and not just civil unions, it would be possible for same-sex couples from any state to be married in NJ. They would then return to their home state and sue to have their marriages recognized.
These suits would probably be brought in federal court (because in many states, the anti-gay-marriage constitutional amendments make court challenges moot). Federal courts would probably rule against these couples, citing DOMA (the Defense of Marriage Act) which prevents a federal court from forcing a state to recognize same-sex marriages. This would be appealed, probably on multiple grounds, but especially on the grounds that DOMA violates equal protection and the Full Faith and Credit clause of the constitution. The case would eventually go to the Supreme Court, and everyone gets to hold their breath awaiting the result. (If the Court were to hear such a case today, it would all come down to what Justice Kennedy decides, because the rest of the Court is easily split 4-4).
posted by thewittyname at 1:13 PM on October 25, 2006
The biggest fear of conservatives has been the ability of same-sex couples to "spread" same-sex marriage outside of any state where it is currently legal. Right now, only Massachusetts allows for gay marriage. Due to the outrageously bigoted application of a long-unenforced 1913 law (which prevents out of state couples from being married in MA if their home state will not allow the marriage), single-sex marriage has effectively been "contained" in Massachusetts. (Note, this may change once Deval Patrick is elected governor, but who knows).
New Jersey has no such equivalent of MA's 1913 law, so if NJ were to allow same-sex marriages and not just civil unions, it would be possible for same-sex couples from any state to be married in NJ. They would then return to their home state and sue to have their marriages recognized.
These suits would probably be brought in federal court (because in many states, the anti-gay-marriage constitutional amendments make court challenges moot). Federal courts would probably rule against these couples, citing DOMA (the Defense of Marriage Act) which prevents a federal court from forcing a state to recognize same-sex marriages. This would be appealed, probably on multiple grounds, but especially on the grounds that DOMA violates equal protection and the Full Faith and Credit clause of the constitution. The case would eventually go to the Supreme Court, and everyone gets to hold their breath awaiting the result. (If the Court were to hear such a case today, it would all come down to what Justice Kennedy decides, because the rest of the Court is easily split 4-4).
posted by thewittyname at 1:13 PM on October 25, 2006
gurple, if an amendment wouldn't have passed, why was there worry?
Interesting fact about marriage in NJ: there's no residency law, unlike in Mass, so any American can marry there, and then take their marriage to their own state courts.
posted by amberglow at 1:13 PM on October 25, 2006
Interesting fact about marriage in NJ: there's no residency law, unlike in Mass, so any American can marry there, and then take their marriage to their own state courts.
posted by amberglow at 1:13 PM on October 25, 2006
Homoleftyfilter.
posted by mr_crash_davis at 1:15 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by mr_crash_davis at 1:15 PM on October 25, 2006
Hey, in Jersey anything's legal as long as you don't get caught...
posted by jonmc at 1:16 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by jonmc at 1:16 PM on October 25, 2006
I'm not so convinced that this will have a big impact on the elections. It has nothing to do with the economy, Iraq, overzealous surveillance, or the death of habeas corpus, and those issues seem to be much more pivotal in the polls right now. I'm happy to call it a victory.
posted by owhydididoit at 1:18 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by owhydididoit at 1:18 PM on October 25, 2006
(going straight from here to AskMe to ask for suggested names),
Why? Is discussion of possible names prohibited in this thread?
posted by DevilsAdvocate at 1:19 PM on October 25, 2006
Why? Is discussion of possible names prohibited in this thread?
posted by DevilsAdvocate at 1:19 PM on October 25, 2006
oh, thewittyname, if NJ goes the VT route with Civil Unions containing exactly the same benefits as marriage, will the same scenario still play out?
posted by amberglow at 1:22 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 1:22 PM on October 25, 2006
owhydididoit: I'm not so convinced that this will have a big impact on the elections. It has nothing to do with the economy, Iraq, overzealous surveillance, or the death of habeas corpus, and those issues seem to be much more pivotal in the polls right now. I'm happy to call it a victory.
That, and in many districts the dems have done a successful job playing the kinder gentler anti-gay party. So we go to the polls choosing between two candidates who have vowed to block gay marriage.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 1:23 PM on October 25, 2006
That, and in many districts the dems have done a successful job playing the kinder gentler anti-gay party. So we go to the polls choosing between two candidates who have vowed to block gay marriage.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 1:23 PM on October 25, 2006
losing the fourth election in a row is not much of a victory, either
Will this issue energize the right-wing loony branch? Probably. More of them may vote than would have. But the middle is breaking away from the ends, and the right fringe voter is not gonna hold sway like they did four years ago. I just don't see it as a huge problem.
posted by Benny Andajetz at 1:24 PM on October 25, 2006
Will this issue energize the right-wing loony branch? Probably. More of them may vote than would have. But the middle is breaking away from the ends, and the right fringe voter is not gonna hold sway like they did four years ago. I just don't see it as a huge problem.
posted by Benny Andajetz at 1:24 PM on October 25, 2006
gurple, if an amendment wouldn't have passed, why was there worry?
Because it probably wouldn't have passed. What would be more horrific than winning a case like that and having the legislature crap all over your victory?
The decision in the WA case was actually pretty fascinating. The plurality decision basically said "this case wasn't brought on the correct grounds. Come back and pitch it in a different way. Or, wait a few years while the cultural climate changes and pitch it in the same way". There was a "concurrence" of judges who agreed with the verdict but felt the need to lash out against gay marriage in their own decision. In WA the next step is definitely a legislative attempt, and I hope we see that soon.
posted by gurple at 1:24 PM on October 25, 2006
Because it probably wouldn't have passed. What would be more horrific than winning a case like that and having the legislature crap all over your victory?
The decision in the WA case was actually pretty fascinating. The plurality decision basically said "this case wasn't brought on the correct grounds. Come back and pitch it in a different way. Or, wait a few years while the cultural climate changes and pitch it in the same way". There was a "concurrence" of judges who agreed with the verdict but felt the need to lash out against gay marriage in their own decision. In WA the next step is definitely a legislative attempt, and I hope we see that soon.
posted by gurple at 1:24 PM on October 25, 2006
And meet the 7 couples here: Cindy Meneghin and Maureen Kilian met at De Paul Roman Catholic High School in Wayne in 1973 and became high school sweethearts. They have been together ever since....
posted by amberglow at 1:24 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 1:24 PM on October 25, 2006
This is a great decision. It gives people their rights, and throws the hot potato to the legislature where it belongs.
Meanwhile, Barney Frank tears Republican hypocrites a new one (YouTube) in his own inimitable way.
posted by alms at 1:29 PM on October 25, 2006
Meanwhile, Barney Frank tears Republican hypocrites a new one (YouTube) in his own inimitable way.
posted by alms at 1:29 PM on October 25, 2006
Come on, New York! You gonna let New Jersey show us up like this? It's friggin' New Jersey, fucryinoutloud!
posted by hojoki at 1:31 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by hojoki at 1:31 PM on October 25, 2006
Will this issue energize the right-wing loony branch? Probably
no, it's a clear-cut issue: two weeks from an election all politics is electoral -- all about math. is this ruling going to bring to the polls more Republicans who would have stayed home otherwise or more Democrats?
posted by matteo at 1:33 PM on October 25, 2006
no, it's a clear-cut issue: two weeks from an election all politics is electoral -- all about math. is this ruling going to bring to the polls more Republicans who would have stayed home otherwise or more Democrats?
posted by matteo at 1:33 PM on October 25, 2006
Now it's CRITICAL for NJ residents to call their state legislatures and ask them to support the bill that will shortly be introduced by Assembly Speaker Pro Tem Wilfredo Caraballo, Assemblyman Brian Stack and Assemblyman Reed Gusciora, which will make marriage proper legal for ALL citizens.
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 1:35 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 1:35 PM on October 25, 2006
(anyway we can bookmark this thread, it'll still be open on Nov 8)
posted by matteo at 1:36 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by matteo at 1:36 PM on October 25, 2006
Come on, New York! You gonna let New Jersey show us up like this? It's friggin' New Jersey, fucryinoutloud!
I know!!!! ; >
and what John Kenneth Fisher said--spread the word.
I hope they don't throw in a residency poison pill requirement while crafting it.
posted by amberglow at 1:37 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
I know!!!! ; >
and what John Kenneth Fisher said--spread the word.
I hope they don't throw in a residency poison pill requirement while crafting it.
posted by amberglow at 1:37 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
oh, thewittyname, if NJ goes the VT route with Civil Unions containing exactly the same benefits as marriage, will the same scenario still play out?
I doubt it, because so far no other state has recognized a VT or CT civil union as being equivalent to a marriage. That wouldn't stop someone from arguing that NJ's civil unions are somehow different, but I don't see that as a winning argument.
The Massachusetts Supreme Court got it right - it's not enough to grant eqaul rights under seperate labels. The label itself carries power, both legally and socially. It allows homosexuals to participate in the same institution that has long been given reciprocity by the states. Calling it civil unions allows a state to say, it may give you equal rights in NJ, but it's not marriage, so we don't have to recognize it.
posted by thewittyname at 1:37 PM on October 25, 2006
I doubt it, because so far no other state has recognized a VT or CT civil union as being equivalent to a marriage. That wouldn't stop someone from arguing that NJ's civil unions are somehow different, but I don't see that as a winning argument.
The Massachusetts Supreme Court got it right - it's not enough to grant eqaul rights under seperate labels. The label itself carries power, both legally and socially. It allows homosexuals to participate in the same institution that has long been given reciprocity by the states. Calling it civil unions allows a state to say, it may give you equal rights in NJ, but it's not marriage, so we don't have to recognize it.
posted by thewittyname at 1:37 PM on October 25, 2006
has Corzine commented yet? I wonder if he'll push them to do Civil Unions?
posted by amberglow at 1:39 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 1:39 PM on October 25, 2006
no, it's a clear-cut issue: two weeks from an election all politics is electoral -- all about math. is this ruling going to bring to the polls more Republicans who would have stayed home otherwise or more Democrats?
It's not that clear cut. The question is will it bring out enough Republicans to make up for the voters the Republican party is hemorraghing? The religious right has only helped the Republicans over the top, they have never constituted the bulk of the party.
posted by Benny Andajetz at 1:44 PM on October 25, 2006
It's not that clear cut. The question is will it bring out enough Republicans to make up for the voters the Republican party is hemorraghing? The religious right has only helped the Republicans over the top, they have never constituted the bulk of the party.
posted by Benny Andajetz at 1:44 PM on October 25, 2006
Now it's CRITICAL for NJ residents to call their state legislatures and ask them to support the bill that will shortly be introduced by Assembly Speaker Pro Tem Wilfredo Caraballo, Assemblyman Brian Stack and Assemblyman Reed Gusciora, which will make marriage proper legal for ALL citizens.
It is also just as critical to identify yourselves as straight if, in fact, you are. The majority of NJ citizens support gay marriage, let's make sure the legislature know that.
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 1:44 PM on October 25, 2006
It is also just as critical to identify yourselves as straight if, in fact, you are. The majority of NJ citizens support gay marriage, let's make sure the legislature know that.
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 1:44 PM on October 25, 2006
There's no way that there's 4 votes in SCOTUS for striking down DOMA on equal protection grounds. I agree, however, that a residency poison pill is inevitable in any bill allowing gay marriage.
posted by Saucy Intruder at 1:49 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by Saucy Intruder at 1:49 PM on October 25, 2006
Way to energize the Republican base!
I find it's more effective to work the Republican shaft and balls.
posted by StrasbourgSecaucus at 1:55 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
I find it's more effective to work the Republican shaft and balls.
posted by StrasbourgSecaucus at 1:55 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
This is manna from heaven for the GOP.
amberglow, you might be right about the similarity in positions between Kean II and Menendez, but 2004 showed us that that doesn't matter. The fact today is that the GOP gets the "I'm an angry persecuted Christian" vote, even though there was about zero daylight between Bush and Kerry on this issue. It's a boon for Republicans all around the country.
posted by ibmcginty at 1:55 PM on October 25, 2006
amberglow, you might be right about the similarity in positions between Kean II and Menendez, but 2004 showed us that that doesn't matter. The fact today is that the GOP gets the "I'm an angry persecuted Christian" vote, even though there was about zero daylight between Bush and Kerry on this issue. It's a boon for Republicans all around the country.
posted by ibmcginty at 1:55 PM on October 25, 2006
Meanwhile, in Canada, the Conservative minority government is gearing up to hold a free vote on same sex marriage before Christmas. Even though courts in something like 5 provinces (I don't recall the exact number) have already ruled that the old way was contrary to the Charter & there have already been thousands of gay & lesbian couples married under the equal marriage law.
posted by raedyn at 1:59 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by raedyn at 1:59 PM on October 25, 2006
HTML version of the ruling here
... HELD: Denying committed same-sex couples the financial and social benefits and privileges given to their married heterosexual counterparts bears no substantial relationship to a legitimate governmental purpose. The Court holds that under the equal protection guarantee of Article I, Paragraph 1 of the New Jersey Constitution, committed same-sex couples must be afforded on equal terms the same rights and benefits enjoyed by opposite-sex couples under the civil marriage statutes. The name to be given to the statutory scheme that provides full rights and benefits to same-sex couples, whether marriage or some other term, is a matter left to the democratic process.
... At this point, the Court does not consider whether committed same-sex couples should be allowed to marry, but only whether those couples are entitled to the same rights and benefits afforded to married heterosexual couples. Cast in that light, the issue is not about the transformation of the traditional definition of marriage, but about the unequal dispensation of benefits and privileges to one of two similarly situated classes of people.
... Thus, under our current laws, committed same-sex couples and their children are not afforded the benefits and protections available to similar heterosexual households.
... There is something distinctly unfair about the State recognizing the right of same-sex couples to raise natural and adopted children and placing foster children with those couples, and yet denying those children the financial and social benefits and privileges available to children in heterosexual households. Five of the seven plaintiff couples are raising or have raised children. There is no rational basis for visiting on those children a flawed and unfair scheme directed at their parents. To the extent that families are strengthened by encouraging monogamous relationships, whether heterosexual or homosexual, we cannot discern any public need that would justify the legal disabilities that now afflict same-sex domestic partnerships.
... Raised here is the perplexing question -- “what’s in a name?” -- and is a name itself of constitutional magnitude after the State is required to provide full statutory rights and benefits to same-sex couples? We are mindful that in the cultural clash over same-sex marriage, the word marriage itself -- independent of the rights and benefits of marriage -- has an evocative and important meaning to both parties. Under our equal protection jurisprudence, however, plaintiffs’ claimed right to the name of marriage is surely not the same now that equal rights and benefits must be conferred on committed same-sex couples.
We do not know how the Legislature will proceed to remedy the equal pro tection disparities that current ly exist in our statutory scheme. ...
posted by amberglow at 2:00 PM on October 25, 2006
... HELD: Denying committed same-sex couples the financial and social benefits and privileges given to their married heterosexual counterparts bears no substantial relationship to a legitimate governmental purpose. The Court holds that under the equal protection guarantee of Article I, Paragraph 1 of the New Jersey Constitution, committed same-sex couples must be afforded on equal terms the same rights and benefits enjoyed by opposite-sex couples under the civil marriage statutes. The name to be given to the statutory scheme that provides full rights and benefits to same-sex couples, whether marriage or some other term, is a matter left to the democratic process.
... At this point, the Court does not consider whether committed same-sex couples should be allowed to marry, but only whether those couples are entitled to the same rights and benefits afforded to married heterosexual couples. Cast in that light, the issue is not about the transformation of the traditional definition of marriage, but about the unequal dispensation of benefits and privileges to one of two similarly situated classes of people.
... Thus, under our current laws, committed same-sex couples and their children are not afforded the benefits and protections available to similar heterosexual households.
... There is something distinctly unfair about the State recognizing the right of same-sex couples to raise natural and adopted children and placing foster children with those couples, and yet denying those children the financial and social benefits and privileges available to children in heterosexual households. Five of the seven plaintiff couples are raising or have raised children. There is no rational basis for visiting on those children a flawed and unfair scheme directed at their parents. To the extent that families are strengthened by encouraging monogamous relationships, whether heterosexual or homosexual, we cannot discern any public need that would justify the legal disabilities that now afflict same-sex domestic partnerships.
... Raised here is the perplexing question -- “what’s in a name?” -- and is a name itself of constitutional magnitude after the State is required to provide full statutory rights and benefits to same-sex couples? We are mindful that in the cultural clash over same-sex marriage, the word marriage itself -- independent of the rights and benefits of marriage -- has an evocative and important meaning to both parties. Under our equal protection jurisprudence, however, plaintiffs’ claimed right to the name of marriage is surely not the same now that equal rights and benefits must be conferred on committed same-sex couples.
We do not know how the Legislature will proceed to remedy the equal pro tection disparities that current ly exist in our statutory scheme. ...
posted by amberglow at 2:00 PM on October 25, 2006
My point? Don't allow yourselves to relax just because you've won one victory. There are people working to defeat those hard won rights, even after they're enshrined in law & in the constitution.
posted by raedyn at 2:01 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by raedyn at 2:01 PM on October 25, 2006
"The issue is not about the transformation of the traditional definition of marriage, but about the unequal dispensation of benefits and privileges to one of two similarly situated classes of people."
What the court said.
posted by nickmark at 2:05 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
What the court said.
posted by nickmark at 2:05 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
I find it's more effective to work the Republican shaft and balls.
So does this hottie, clearly. ; >
posted by amberglow at 2:11 PM on October 25, 2006
So does this hottie, clearly. ; >
posted by amberglow at 2:11 PM on October 25, 2006
Well, I really doubt it will affect the three big house elections in Connecticut. Because the reaction to our own civil union bill was a big fat yawn. Gay marriage isn't even in the list of important issues to voters, according to the last poll I saw. (We also don't care about immigration, go figure.)
posted by smackfu at 2:14 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by smackfu at 2:14 PM on October 25, 2006
"We also don't care about immigration, go figure."
Like anyone would ever immigrate to CT.
posted by mr_crash_davis at 2:21 PM on October 25, 2006
Like anyone would ever immigrate to CT.
posted by mr_crash_davis at 2:21 PM on October 25, 2006
Meant in jest, I realize, but man of my friends from CT are the children of immigrants (bankers or UNers, though).
posted by sohcahtoa at 2:23 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by sohcahtoa at 2:23 PM on October 25, 2006
There was this joke I recently heard that went along the lines of someone wondering why anyone could be against same sex marriage. . .because anyone who IS married knows that it's ALWAYS the same sex!
On a serious note, I think that the next generation will view people who fought same-sex marriage in the same way that we think of the people a generation ago that wanted blacks to have different drinking fountains than whites.
posted by Danf at 2:38 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
On a serious note, I think that the next generation will view people who fought same-sex marriage in the same way that we think of the people a generation ago that wanted blacks to have different drinking fountains than whites.
posted by Danf at 2:38 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
Again, the courts deliver where politicians are too cowardly to do the right thing. It's cases like this that reinforce the lesson that railing against "activist judges" is usually code in favor of bigotry. Another win for separation of powers.
posted by norm at 2:38 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by norm at 2:38 PM on October 25, 2006
Don't Forget to Pray for Election Day
"In a Christian nation, we have the biblical responsibility as well as the patriotic responsibility to cast our vote for those who govern us," he said. "We want people to spend time praying that those who are elected will align themselves with God's laws. We also want them to get out and vote so the Christian understanding is captured in the vote."
Note: this shit is tax-exempt
"You've seen Hollywood embrace "gay pride." You've been told that homosexuals make up 10 percent of the population (the actual number is less than 3 percent). Perhaps you've struggled with troubling thoughts, causing you to wonder about your gender identity, or maybe you've even sought to meet your needs for companionship and acceptance through a same-sex relationship. If so, you need to know that you do have a choice in the matter, that you're not simply "wired that way." Indeed, you don't have to be gay — there is hope for those who want to change."
posted by four panels at 2:40 PM on October 25, 2006
"In a Christian nation, we have the biblical responsibility as well as the patriotic responsibility to cast our vote for those who govern us," he said. "We want people to spend time praying that those who are elected will align themselves with God's laws. We also want them to get out and vote so the Christian understanding is captured in the vote."
Note: this shit is tax-exempt
"You've seen Hollywood embrace "gay pride." You've been told that homosexuals make up 10 percent of the population (the actual number is less than 3 percent). Perhaps you've struggled with troubling thoughts, causing you to wonder about your gender identity, or maybe you've even sought to meet your needs for companionship and acceptance through a same-sex relationship. If so, you need to know that you do have a choice in the matter, that you're not simply "wired that way." Indeed, you don't have to be gay — there is hope for those who want to change."
posted by four panels at 2:40 PM on October 25, 2006
My god, four panels, what a horrifying, deceitful, amoral website that Focus on the Pharisees one is.
Preventing homosexuality.
As important as parent-child dynamics are, they aren't the only concerns. The following factors can also contribute to the homosexual orientation.
• the individual person's self-will
• pornography
• media and culture
• spousal abuse in the home
• molestation and pedophilia
• parental adultery
• moral relativism
• seduction by peers
• chemical imbalances
• failure of leadership
posted by ibmcginty at 2:46 PM on October 25, 2006
Preventing homosexuality.
As important as parent-child dynamics are, they aren't the only concerns. The following factors can also contribute to the homosexual orientation.
• the individual person's self-will
• pornography
• media and culture
• spousal abuse in the home
• molestation and pedophilia
• parental adultery
• moral relativism
• seduction by peers
• chemical imbalances
• failure of leadership
posted by ibmcginty at 2:46 PM on October 25, 2006
You know, next time I need to explain why I think the progessive movement in the United States is a piece of shit, all I have to do is point to the moral and political cowardace demonstrated in this thread.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 2:49 PM on October 25, 2006 [2 favorites]
posted by KirkJobSluder at 2:49 PM on October 25, 2006 [2 favorites]
Nice. We also have a moratorium on the death penalty at the moment, which is all shiny.
As to how this will play in NJ politics: well, there will probably be some jokes about McGreevey (who came out of the closet a couple of hours before he was going to get called corrupt); and maybe the in-state newspapers will stop screaming about property taxes or government corruption for 5 minutes, that's always a possibility. ... But unless gay marriage / civil unions somehow changes the property taxes or corrupt officials have gay weddings, I don't see it making a big dent.
posted by graymouser at 3:04 PM on October 25, 2006
As to how this will play in NJ politics: well, there will probably be some jokes about McGreevey (who came out of the closet a couple of hours before he was going to get called corrupt); and maybe the in-state newspapers will stop screaming about property taxes or government corruption for 5 minutes, that's always a possibility. ... But unless gay marriage / civil unions somehow changes the property taxes or corrupt officials have gay weddings, I don't see it making a big dent.
posted by graymouser at 3:04 PM on October 25, 2006
Way to energize the Republican base!
Exactly.
How else do you get the non-rich to vote for Republicans?
Invent or co-opt "issues", like abortion, flag-burning, family values, marriage "referendum", the Ten Commandments on gv't. property... blah blah blah...
The GOP could never run on its true agenda, because only 1% of the population would vote for Republicans every time there was an election.
posted by wfc123 at 3:07 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
Exactly.
How else do you get the non-rich to vote for Republicans?
Invent or co-opt "issues", like abortion, flag-burning, family values, marriage "referendum", the Ten Commandments on gv't. property... blah blah blah...
The GOP could never run on its true agenda, because only 1% of the population would vote for Republicans every time there was an election.
posted by wfc123 at 3:07 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
There was this joke I recently heard that went along the lines of someone wondering why anyone could be against same sex marriage. . .because anyone who IS married knows that it's ALWAYS the same sex!
That's from Bill Maher:
That's from Bill Maher:
"All marriages are same-sex marriages--you go to bed every night, and it's the same sex!"posted by ericb at 3:26 PM on October 25, 2006
I find it's more effective to work the Republican shaft and balls.
If you're going to get fucked by the GOP you might as well enjoy it.
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 3:30 PM on October 25, 2006
If you're going to get fucked by the GOP you might as well enjoy it.
posted by Blazecock Pileon at 3:30 PM on October 25, 2006
I interviewed Mel White today, he is the leader of Soul Force, which is working to end religious-based discrimination of gay and lesbian Americans. Unfortunately, this judgement passed after I had completed the interview, but he outlines to me that the religious right's war on gays began because they could no longer get people motivated to fighting communism. Members of the religious right met and discussed the supposed Gay Agenda, which is as hoaxy as the Protocols of the Elders of Zion (but was inserted into the Congressional Record anyway).
Listen to Christian conservative leaders talk about gays and lesbians:
Pat Robertson: "The America that homosexuals are demanding is a sewer of moral filth, a place of spiritual anarchy, an environment that's incredibly dangerous to our children, a culture that despises Christian faith and morality."
James Dobson: "This is an issue America has got to wake up to. The homosexual agenda is a beast. It wants our kids...Moms and dads, are you listening? This movement is the greatest threat to your children. It is a particular danger to your wide-eyed boys, who have no idea what demoralization is planned for them"
Change 'gay' and 'homosexual' to Jew and Jewish and you get the idea of the kind of prejudice gays and lesbians are facing from the religious right.
It is time we, as faithful Americans who pray not for but together and in alliance with our gay and lesbian brethren, stop laughing at Pat Robertson when he cites Leviticus and start talking out against him.
Be angry, be strong, fight back.
God bless America.
posted by parmanparman at 3:34 PM on October 25, 2006
Listen to Christian conservative leaders talk about gays and lesbians:
Pat Robertson: "The America that homosexuals are demanding is a sewer of moral filth, a place of spiritual anarchy, an environment that's incredibly dangerous to our children, a culture that despises Christian faith and morality."
James Dobson: "This is an issue America has got to wake up to. The homosexual agenda is a beast. It wants our kids...Moms and dads, are you listening? This movement is the greatest threat to your children. It is a particular danger to your wide-eyed boys, who have no idea what demoralization is planned for them"
Change 'gay' and 'homosexual' to Jew and Jewish and you get the idea of the kind of prejudice gays and lesbians are facing from the religious right.
It is time we, as faithful Americans who pray not for but together and in alliance with our gay and lesbian brethren, stop laughing at Pat Robertson when he cites Leviticus and start talking out against him.
Be angry, be strong, fight back.
God bless America.
posted by parmanparman at 3:34 PM on October 25, 2006
The basic fact of the matter is, it's never going to be the "right time." I live in the midst of the Hill(D)/Sodrel(R) shoot-out in which Hill(D) is running to regain the seat he lost in 2004. The Sodrel campaign has pulled out scare-votes from 4 years ago in push-polls. Something like, "did you know that Hill voted against prescription drugs for senior citizens?" If this decision fucking came out on Christmas day, it would be carted out for the next the next primary cycle. These are people who still are bitter over Clinton eight years ago. To heck with that, they will go on about how the 70s were a big mistake, and half of them can't remember that time.
Gay rights pisses off bigots. Get over it. Or better yet, get over your cheap self and find your local pflag chapter. Put the rainbow flag on your porch next to the American one. Wear the pink or purple triangle and let people make their own conclusions at first glance. Push the issue in the city council and your city newspaper.
Rather than bitching about "energizing the Republican base" at every step forward, why not get off your ass and undermine it? For that matter, you don't even need to get off your ass. Just openly wear queer and queer-positive badges showing where you stand, and you will be amazed at how many allies you energize, and how small conversations can open up minds.
And lets be blunt here. Isn't it pathetic that the only thing that the Democrats have to go on is coattails of scandal and current events? The Republican party deserves to loose, but the Democrats don't deserve to win. The Democrats have offered no agenda, no justice, no clear platform, just a promise that a deadlocked federal government couldn't be worse than the government we have. Yeaaaaa! Whoop di god-fucking dooo!
(And to stave off the snark, yes, I voted by paper ballot and have been encouraging everyone I meet to do the same.)
posted by KirkJobSluder at 3:36 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
Gay rights pisses off bigots. Get over it. Or better yet, get over your cheap self and find your local pflag chapter. Put the rainbow flag on your porch next to the American one. Wear the pink or purple triangle and let people make their own conclusions at first glance. Push the issue in the city council and your city newspaper.
Rather than bitching about "energizing the Republican base" at every step forward, why not get off your ass and undermine it? For that matter, you don't even need to get off your ass. Just openly wear queer and queer-positive badges showing where you stand, and you will be amazed at how many allies you energize, and how small conversations can open up minds.
And lets be blunt here. Isn't it pathetic that the only thing that the Democrats have to go on is coattails of scandal and current events? The Republican party deserves to loose, but the Democrats don't deserve to win. The Democrats have offered no agenda, no justice, no clear platform, just a promise that a deadlocked federal government couldn't be worse than the government we have. Yeaaaaa! Whoop di god-fucking dooo!
(And to stave off the snark, yes, I voted by paper ballot and have been encouraging everyone I meet to do the same.)
posted by KirkJobSluder at 3:36 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
How else do you get the non-rich to vote for Republicans?
Invent or co-opt "issues", like abortion, flag-burning, family values, marriage "referendum", the Ten Commandments on gv't. property... blah blah blah...
The GOP could never run on its true agenda, because only 1% of the population would vote for Republicans every time there was an election.
posted by wfc123 at 6:07 PM EST on October 25
Exactly
The basic fact of the matter is, it's never going to be the "right time."
True, but two weeks before an election is really the wrong time. If this had happened say last December it would be a non-issue by now. The country is in dire, dire straights, and it really was starting to look like the Dems might pull it off and take back at least the House. Now, I am not so sure. Perhaps people are really more disgusted with the Iraq war than I give them credit for, but this issue cost the Dems the '04 election and now it is poised to do the same in '06. In '04 I thought the people pushing this were just being selfish as they knew what it meant for the overall election. This time, the timing is not their fault, it is just horrible luck with a justice casting the deciding vote facing mandatory retirement tomorrow. Aghhhhhhhhh!
posted by caddis at 4:02 PM on October 25, 2006
Invent or co-opt "issues", like abortion, flag-burning, family values, marriage "referendum", the Ten Commandments on gv't. property... blah blah blah...
The GOP could never run on its true agenda, because only 1% of the population would vote for Republicans every time there was an election.
posted by wfc123 at 6:07 PM EST on October 25
Exactly
The basic fact of the matter is, it's never going to be the "right time."
True, but two weeks before an election is really the wrong time. If this had happened say last December it would be a non-issue by now. The country is in dire, dire straights, and it really was starting to look like the Dems might pull it off and take back at least the House. Now, I am not so sure. Perhaps people are really more disgusted with the Iraq war than I give them credit for, but this issue cost the Dems the '04 election and now it is poised to do the same in '06. In '04 I thought the people pushing this were just being selfish as they knew what it meant for the overall election. This time, the timing is not their fault, it is just horrible luck with a justice casting the deciding vote facing mandatory retirement tomorrow. Aghhhhhhhhh!
posted by caddis at 4:02 PM on October 25, 2006
Now, I am not so sure.
Exactly. Gift from the heavens for the GOP, because they'll start screaming Gays!, and that will knock Foley right out of the meme pool.
Next three days will be Gays!, then we'll have Dear Leader's new course for Iraq.
Dems gain niether house, lose seats in the Senate. The glimmer of light is that Joe Lieberman will be *fucked* -- no reason for the GOP to be nice to him if he's not the Fox Democrat, no reason for the Democrats to be nice to him if he can't give them the majority.
If the Democrats had actually *fought* this issue before, rather than dodging it, this wouldn't have happened. Now, the GOP is going to headlight this, and the Fucking Democrats are going to spend the week trying to weasel out of saying "Well, gays should be able to marry."
posted by eriko at 4:11 PM on October 25, 2006
Exactly. Gift from the heavens for the GOP, because they'll start screaming Gays!, and that will knock Foley right out of the meme pool.
Next three days will be Gays!, then we'll have Dear Leader's new course for Iraq.
Dems gain niether house, lose seats in the Senate. The glimmer of light is that Joe Lieberman will be *fucked* -- no reason for the GOP to be nice to him if he's not the Fox Democrat, no reason for the Democrats to be nice to him if he can't give them the majority.
If the Democrats had actually *fought* this issue before, rather than dodging it, this wouldn't have happened. Now, the GOP is going to headlight this, and the Fucking Democrats are going to spend the week trying to weasel out of saying "Well, gays should be able to marry."
posted by eriko at 4:11 PM on October 25, 2006
Jesus christ, we're never going to have a meaningful progressive movement in this country until people who claim to be on our side refuse to be fucking cowed by fear any longer that they quit biting their nails and start using their fucking spines. The right will never be defeated until we start winning victories at every chance we get.
The Dems may think "cower" is a suitable strategy for winning rights, but they are fucking mistaken.
posted by scody at 4:19 PM on October 25, 2006
The Dems may think "cower" is a suitable strategy for winning rights, but they are fucking mistaken.
posted by scody at 4:19 PM on October 25, 2006
what scody said. And it's not even progressive to be for same-sex marriage, but just normal and even traditional.
The Democrats have all run away from this issue--too fucking bad if it bites them again. The GOP always uses it--they should have learned way before now.
posted by amberglow at 4:47 PM on October 25, 2006
The Democrats have all run away from this issue--too fucking bad if it bites them again. The GOP always uses it--they should have learned way before now.
posted by amberglow at 4:47 PM on October 25, 2006
Equal marriage is a human rights issue, there is a clear line between the right side of the issue and the wrong side of the issue. Yes, the Republicans will use it to bring out the rednecks to the polls and I agree the timing of this case is less than ideal.
However, continuing to avoid the issue is, in the long run, detrimental to the Democrats. It's akin to voting for the Iraq war because it was politically expedient at the time. 10 years from now, we'll be asking the Democrats who run from this issue, "Where the hell were you when it mattered?"
The response to the rednecks who might be thinking of switching their vote because of this is, "Look at what has happened to your financial security, your personal freedom, and your physical well being in the last six years. You are in much greater danger of being fucked in the ass by the Republicans in power than by the married gay couple down the street."
posted by Slarty Bartfast at 5:10 PM on October 25, 2006
However, continuing to avoid the issue is, in the long run, detrimental to the Democrats. It's akin to voting for the Iraq war because it was politically expedient at the time. 10 years from now, we'll be asking the Democrats who run from this issue, "Where the hell were you when it mattered?"
The response to the rednecks who might be thinking of switching their vote because of this is, "Look at what has happened to your financial security, your personal freedom, and your physical well being in the last six years. You are in much greater danger of being fucked in the ass by the Republicans in power than by the married gay couple down the street."
posted by Slarty Bartfast at 5:10 PM on October 25, 2006
And furthermore, running from the issue just reinforces the idea that Democrats have a secret agenda that isn't in line with ordinary working folks in middle America.
Get a back bone you pussies! Stop letting the Republicans push you around!
posted by Slarty Bartfast at 5:14 PM on October 25, 2006
Get a back bone you pussies! Stop letting the Republicans push you around!
posted by Slarty Bartfast at 5:14 PM on October 25, 2006
caddis: True, but two weeks before an election is really the wrong time. If this had happened say last December it would be a non-issue by now.
I disagree. I'm getting campaign mail talking about stuff that happened three and four years ago. The gay marriage and domestic partnership issue came up in the primaries. It is foolish to think that the right does not have long memories. The only way it's going to be a "non-issue" is for gay rights advocates to either just give up in the United States, or finally win this battle.
The country is in dire, dire straights, and it really was starting to look like the Dems might pull it off and take back at least the House. Now, I am not so sure. Perhaps people are really more disgusted with the Iraq war than I give them credit for, but this issue cost the Dems the '04 election and now it is poised to do the same in '06. In '04 I thought the people pushing this were just being selfish as they knew what it meant for the overall election. This time, the timing is not their fault, it is just horrible luck with a justice casting the deciding vote facing mandatory retirement tomorrow. Aghhhhhhhhh!
Those who would call others selfish for attempting to claim the basic human rights owed to them are bigots and traitors.
Bigots because those who are truely for basic human rights will justify no compromise or quarter, and would not presume to call people selfish for demanding those rights.
Traitors because the promise of these rights are the foundational principle on which the United States is built.
And if you are not LGBT, and if you are not willing to take the risk of being seen as LGBT, then your opinion on this matter isn't worth a pile of shit anyway. (Less because a pile of shit is actually good for something.)
(And yes, my position on this has changed a bit, because I finally realized that the "right time" means "never.")
scody: Jesus christ, we're never going to have a meaningful progressive movement in this country until people who claim to be on our side refuse to be fucking cowed by fear any longer that they quit biting their nails and start using their fucking spines. The right will never be defeated until we start winning victories at every chance we get.
The progressive movement is dead (mortally wounded after Seattle and Philly), and never did much anyway besides play follow the radicals.
Here is what we need, my dear old grandmother may have had many faults, but in the '60s she refused to collaborate with segregationists. She'd sit at the colored counters, used the colored restrooms, and drank from the colored water fountains. It's time for straight democrats to shit or get off the pot here. Resist or collaborate. Either take the risks of crossing the line and taking a stand. Or be outed as yet another coward collaborator and bigot.
Those who are not willing to openly identify themselves as lgbt, who are not willing to stand in front of angry crowds, and classrooms of stupid questions. Those who refuse to march or only do so with the "straight but not narrow" shirt. Those who wouldn't dare show the rainbow, labrys, or triangles for fear of what others might think. Those who have never led discussions, manned hotlines, or helped a person through one of the three plagues of queer life in America (HIV, drug abuse, and suicide). Those who have never walked hand in hand or kissed a MOTSS openly on the street. Those who have never and would never take the risk of being targeted for anti-lgbt prejudice, don't have any right or privelege to say "not the right time" or say that others are "selfish" for their politics.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 5:31 PM on October 25, 2006 [4 favorites]
I disagree. I'm getting campaign mail talking about stuff that happened three and four years ago. The gay marriage and domestic partnership issue came up in the primaries. It is foolish to think that the right does not have long memories. The only way it's going to be a "non-issue" is for gay rights advocates to either just give up in the United States, or finally win this battle.
The country is in dire, dire straights, and it really was starting to look like the Dems might pull it off and take back at least the House. Now, I am not so sure. Perhaps people are really more disgusted with the Iraq war than I give them credit for, but this issue cost the Dems the '04 election and now it is poised to do the same in '06. In '04 I thought the people pushing this were just being selfish as they knew what it meant for the overall election. This time, the timing is not their fault, it is just horrible luck with a justice casting the deciding vote facing mandatory retirement tomorrow. Aghhhhhhhhh!
Those who would call others selfish for attempting to claim the basic human rights owed to them are bigots and traitors.
Bigots because those who are truely for basic human rights will justify no compromise or quarter, and would not presume to call people selfish for demanding those rights.
Traitors because the promise of these rights are the foundational principle on which the United States is built.
And if you are not LGBT, and if you are not willing to take the risk of being seen as LGBT, then your opinion on this matter isn't worth a pile of shit anyway. (Less because a pile of shit is actually good for something.)
(And yes, my position on this has changed a bit, because I finally realized that the "right time" means "never.")
scody: Jesus christ, we're never going to have a meaningful progressive movement in this country until people who claim to be on our side refuse to be fucking cowed by fear any longer that they quit biting their nails and start using their fucking spines. The right will never be defeated until we start winning victories at every chance we get.
The progressive movement is dead (mortally wounded after Seattle and Philly), and never did much anyway besides play follow the radicals.
Here is what we need, my dear old grandmother may have had many faults, but in the '60s she refused to collaborate with segregationists. She'd sit at the colored counters, used the colored restrooms, and drank from the colored water fountains. It's time for straight democrats to shit or get off the pot here. Resist or collaborate. Either take the risks of crossing the line and taking a stand. Or be outed as yet another coward collaborator and bigot.
Those who are not willing to openly identify themselves as lgbt, who are not willing to stand in front of angry crowds, and classrooms of stupid questions. Those who refuse to march or only do so with the "straight but not narrow" shirt. Those who wouldn't dare show the rainbow, labrys, or triangles for fear of what others might think. Those who have never led discussions, manned hotlines, or helped a person through one of the three plagues of queer life in America (HIV, drug abuse, and suicide). Those who have never walked hand in hand or kissed a MOTSS openly on the street. Those who have never and would never take the risk of being targeted for anti-lgbt prejudice, don't have any right or privelege to say "not the right time" or say that others are "selfish" for their politics.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 5:31 PM on October 25, 2006 [4 favorites]
The progressive movement is dead (mortally wounded after Seattle and Philly)
Dude, the Progressives were mortally wounded in 1978, and mostly died out early in Reagan's term. The last progressive politician died in a plane crash in MInnesota years ago.
I'd be fucking happy if the moderates grew a spine, but the Democrats apparently think the Tories are too fucking leftist.
posted by eriko at 5:38 PM on October 25, 2006
Dude, the Progressives were mortally wounded in 1978, and mostly died out early in Reagan's term. The last progressive politician died in a plane crash in MInnesota years ago.
I'd be fucking happy if the moderates grew a spine, but the Democrats apparently think the Tories are too fucking leftist.
posted by eriko at 5:38 PM on October 25, 2006
I'm currently siding with the "wait-and-see" camp as to what impact today's New Jersey ruling will have on the national level for the mid-term elections. Iraq looms so large -- as further evidence by Bush's press conference today. The original Republican pre-election strategy of focusing on terrorism has been supplanted by a need to address the dire situation in Iraq. How this plays out over the next 13 days -- who knows? This evening's NBC Nightly News looked at Ohio and the current political climate there. Whether it will be a bellwether for the rest of the country has yet to be determined.
posted by ericb at 5:39 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by ericb at 5:39 PM on October 25, 2006
However, Bill Frist's advice to GOP candidates: Don't Stress Iraq.
A case of "na-na-na-na, I can;t hear you?"
posted by ericb at 5:41 PM on October 25, 2006
A case of "na-na-na-na, I can;t hear you?"
posted by ericb at 5:41 PM on October 25, 2006
(And yes, my position on this has changed a bit, because I finally realized that the "right time" means "never.")
Bingo. Exactly. Just as I -- and others -- have realized that there is never a "right time" to come out to one's family and friends. Relying on "the right time" canard is just an excuse and a debilitating crutch -- an avoidance of what's right and inevitable (if one is to be true to one's self).
posted by ericb at 5:46 PM on October 25, 2006
Bingo. Exactly. Just as I -- and others -- have realized that there is never a "right time" to come out to one's family and friends. Relying on "the right time" canard is just an excuse and a debilitating crutch -- an avoidance of what's right and inevitable (if one is to be true to one's self).
posted by ericb at 5:46 PM on October 25, 2006
And ok, "progressives" who don't want to loose elections over this need to take a page out of the playbooks of the black civil rights movement and the womens' movements. You push the legislation and the lawsuits but you also push the electorate. You do what is called "consiousness raising." You speak out to your churches and sports teams about the evils of prejudice. You openly wear symbols and talk openly when someone asks about them. You march in solidarity taking the risks. You make a point of drinking at "that bar" and buying something from "that bookstore." You volunteer for petition drives. You write letters to the editor as often as they will let you. In your day to day conversations you use every anti-gay joke and slur as a teaching moment.
Some will call you obsessed, strident, shrill, unfun, naive, silly, pervert, queer-lover, satanic, or if you are lucky, "gay." Some will tell you to go home, shut up, or just give it a rest. You might find yourself the target of harassment or violence.
But more frequently you will find allies and fellow travelers from unexpected directions. You won't convert the most hard-core bigot (perhaps move them a bit), but you will chip cracks in the wall of certainty of many, and pull fence-sitters to your side. And really, that's all you need to do. Support your fellow travelers, welcome the undecided, and open up doubt in the certain.
It is so easy to undermine the Republican base on this issue. The landscape has changed to an amazing degree since Reagan. They know that base is being washed out from under their foundation year after year which is why "marriage" is the line of sandbags. If "progressives" want to speed this up, turn the trickle of LGBT advocates into a flood. Openly wear the pride colors and symbols. Boldly flirt with the possibility that you will be seen as LGBT. (This means no "straight but not narrow" shirts.) Then when someone asks, give your testimony, short, sweet and simple. If you need to, write it on a card and practice in the mirror. You don't have to argue with the closed, just honestly describe your convictions to the interested.
And that is the foundation of social revolutions.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 6:25 PM on October 25, 2006 [6 favorites]
Some will call you obsessed, strident, shrill, unfun, naive, silly, pervert, queer-lover, satanic, or if you are lucky, "gay." Some will tell you to go home, shut up, or just give it a rest. You might find yourself the target of harassment or violence.
But more frequently you will find allies and fellow travelers from unexpected directions. You won't convert the most hard-core bigot (perhaps move them a bit), but you will chip cracks in the wall of certainty of many, and pull fence-sitters to your side. And really, that's all you need to do. Support your fellow travelers, welcome the undecided, and open up doubt in the certain.
It is so easy to undermine the Republican base on this issue. The landscape has changed to an amazing degree since Reagan. They know that base is being washed out from under their foundation year after year which is why "marriage" is the line of sandbags. If "progressives" want to speed this up, turn the trickle of LGBT advocates into a flood. Openly wear the pride colors and symbols. Boldly flirt with the possibility that you will be seen as LGBT. (This means no "straight but not narrow" shirts.) Then when someone asks, give your testimony, short, sweet and simple. If you need to, write it on a card and practice in the mirror. You don't have to argue with the closed, just honestly describe your convictions to the interested.
And that is the foundation of social revolutions.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 6:25 PM on October 25, 2006 [6 favorites]
NJ says yes to same-sex marriage!
utter nonsense. who'd marry new jersey?
posted by quonsar at 6:30 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
utter nonsense. who'd marry new jersey?
posted by quonsar at 6:30 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
It has probably been posted elsewhere, but there has been a recent Superior Court ruling in Massachusetts that allows same-sex couples from Rhode Island to get married here. More info...
posted by McGuillicuddy at 6:41 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by McGuillicuddy at 6:41 PM on October 25, 2006
Congratulations, New Jersey!
Meanwhile, our idiot federal government is threatening to re-open the issue. God, I hope we get a new election PDQ.
posted by five fresh fish at 6:48 PM on October 25, 2006
Meanwhile, our idiot federal government is threatening to re-open the issue. God, I hope we get a new election PDQ.
posted by five fresh fish at 6:48 PM on October 25, 2006
Hurray for good old dirty Jerz and good old dirty human rights!
posted by Divine_Wino at 7:09 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by Divine_Wino at 7:09 PM on October 25, 2006
Frankly, I have yet to engage in a direct-action campaign that was "well timed" in the view of those who have not suffered unduly from the disease of segregation. For years now I have heard the word "Wait!"
- Martin Luther King, Letter from Birmingham Jail
posted by scottreynen at 7:11 PM on October 25, 2006 [3 favorites]
- Martin Luther King, Letter from Birmingham Jail
posted by scottreynen at 7:11 PM on October 25, 2006 [3 favorites]
KirkJobSluder's passionate framing in this thread has inspired me to vocalize my support of LGBT rights more vehemently. Does this make me gay? If so, open the motherfucking closet cause I'm coming out! (no mean feat in Oklahoma, Bible Belt Buckle, USA)
Thanks for making it so crystal.
posted by HyperBlue at 7:42 PM on October 25, 2006
Thanks for making it so crystal.
posted by HyperBlue at 7:42 PM on October 25, 2006
Cool, welcome.
posted by KirkJobSluder at 7:45 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by KirkJobSluder at 7:45 PM on October 25, 2006
So what is it about New Jersey that makes it so progressive? My impression from a coastline and country away is that it's an industrial type of place. But then I also associate it with cows...
posted by five fresh fish at 8:09 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by five fresh fish at 8:09 PM on October 25, 2006
Also, as a guy with a common-law marriage I have to admit I'm a little curious as to why the word "married" is so damn important. The word has been rendered essentially generic. We refer to one another as husband and wife, say we have been married twenty years (yay us!), and legally we have most of the rights of a civil marriage.
In fact, I say there's no such thing as a religious marriage. There's a religious ceremony that some people practice, yes, but it is not legally considered a marriage until government papers are signed.
posted by five fresh fish at 8:20 PM on October 25, 2006
In fact, I say there's no such thing as a religious marriage. There's a religious ceremony that some people practice, yes, but it is not legally considered a marriage until government papers are signed.
posted by five fresh fish at 8:20 PM on October 25, 2006
fff: We get the industrial thing a lot. Many people only see the area around Newark Airport, which is an industrial wasteland. We also have a ski resort, lots of coastline, many farms, historical areas - we're really quite a pretty state.
Why are we progressive? No clue.
posted by booksherpa at 8:22 PM on October 25, 2006
Why are we progressive? No clue.
posted by booksherpa at 8:22 PM on October 25, 2006
I'm against gay marriage. And straight marriage too. I'm also opposed to people marrying dogs, rocks or solar winds. Marriage is regressive, and this is simply ensnaring queers in a broadening botch.
And if people must practice "identity" politics, can't somebody at least come up with an identity? Does anybody sit their parents down and say "Mom, Dad, I need you to know I'm El Gee Bee Tee?"
This is not the stuff of a Social Revolution. If this is the best issue "progressives" can find it's no wonder America has been progressing backwards since 1980.
(Now watch some twit with an overly simple black-&-white brain call me "homophobic.")
posted by davy at 8:29 PM on October 25, 2006
And if people must practice "identity" politics, can't somebody at least come up with an identity? Does anybody sit their parents down and say "Mom, Dad, I need you to know I'm El Gee Bee Tee?"
This is not the stuff of a Social Revolution. If this is the best issue "progressives" can find it's no wonder America has been progressing backwards since 1980.
(Now watch some twit with an overly simple black-&-white brain call me "homophobic.")
posted by davy at 8:29 PM on October 25, 2006
"[I]t is not legally considered a marriage until government papers are signed."
BINGO. In what way is begging a government to "recognize" your relationship "progressive"?
As for shared health benefits, etc., instead of going the long way around why not require employers and government agencies to honor your choice? And why must people concentrate on sexual relationships; is there something wrong with wanting to include a niece or a platonic friend on one's policy?
posted by davy at 8:36 PM on October 25, 2006
BINGO. In what way is begging a government to "recognize" your relationship "progressive"?
As for shared health benefits, etc., instead of going the long way around why not require employers and government agencies to honor your choice? And why must people concentrate on sexual relationships; is there something wrong with wanting to include a niece or a platonic friend on one's policy?
posted by davy at 8:36 PM on October 25, 2006
orthogonality writes "Start the countdown to man on dog sex."
I think mother nature misheard you.
posted by VulcanMike at 8:42 PM on October 25, 2006
I think mother nature misheard you.
posted by VulcanMike at 8:42 PM on October 25, 2006
This issue probably gave us four years of GW.
Yeah, right. Fuck you to all the supposed liberals who blame queer folks for the 2004 loss. They conveniently ignore the fact that North Carolina, Idaho and Missouri - states that tilted heavily for Bush - all elected open lesbians as state legislators in 2004. But those darn gays cost Dems the election. Whatever.
Hell, in Dallas County, Texas - which, of course, voted overwhelmingly for Bush - all of those right-wing "moral" voters elected a lesbian as their sheriff in 2004.
Meanwhile, Democratic candidates blatantly demeaned and insulted the estimated 4 million voters who self-identified as gay to exit pollsters in 2000 by unconvincingly staking out right-wing positions on social issues. How moronic and self-defeating is that? As if there were hordes of anti-gay voters just waiting to vote for a Democrat over a hardline Republican. Puh-lease. Winning as a Dem is all about framing left-leaning issues in a way that appeals to the center. That Dem candidates in 2004 ignored that obvious reality, preferring instead to take bad advice from centrists who told them to run screaming from anything close to a gay issue, is hardly the fault of gay people.
Jesus. Blaming gay rights for Bush's 2004 win is the most disgusting, most off-base analysis I can possibly imagine. Open your eyes, caddis.
posted by mediareport at 9:25 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
Yeah, right. Fuck you to all the supposed liberals who blame queer folks for the 2004 loss. They conveniently ignore the fact that North Carolina, Idaho and Missouri - states that tilted heavily for Bush - all elected open lesbians as state legislators in 2004. But those darn gays cost Dems the election. Whatever.
Hell, in Dallas County, Texas - which, of course, voted overwhelmingly for Bush - all of those right-wing "moral" voters elected a lesbian as their sheriff in 2004.
Meanwhile, Democratic candidates blatantly demeaned and insulted the estimated 4 million voters who self-identified as gay to exit pollsters in 2000 by unconvincingly staking out right-wing positions on social issues. How moronic and self-defeating is that? As if there were hordes of anti-gay voters just waiting to vote for a Democrat over a hardline Republican. Puh-lease. Winning as a Dem is all about framing left-leaning issues in a way that appeals to the center. That Dem candidates in 2004 ignored that obvious reality, preferring instead to take bad advice from centrists who told them to run screaming from anything close to a gay issue, is hardly the fault of gay people.
Jesus. Blaming gay rights for Bush's 2004 win is the most disgusting, most off-base analysis I can possibly imagine. Open your eyes, caddis.
posted by mediareport at 9:25 PM on October 25, 2006 [1 favorite]
Why are we progressive? No clue.
As Jersey became more and more suburban (of both Philly and NYC), and its urban areas revitalized, and less and less rural/small-town, it got more progressive--or at least less reactionary. I had a HS Social Studies teacher who used to say Jersey voted like Southern States did, but that was decades ago.
posted by amberglow at 9:26 PM on October 25, 2006
As Jersey became more and more suburban (of both Philly and NYC), and its urban areas revitalized, and less and less rural/small-town, it got more progressive--or at least less reactionary. I had a HS Social Studies teacher who used to say Jersey voted like Southern States did, but that was decades ago.
posted by amberglow at 9:26 PM on October 25, 2006
(i should add, and he was an old Freedom Rider, and I think even then it wasn't true anymore) : >
posted by amberglow at 9:29 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by amberglow at 9:29 PM on October 25, 2006
Awesome news; I'm proud of two states now, but there's forty-eight to go. Let's make it happen, even if it takes 30 more years.
posted by BrotherCaine at 10:00 PM on October 25, 2006
posted by BrotherCaine at 10:00 PM on October 25, 2006
Hooray New Jersey!
And. KirkJobSluder RULES!
Gay marriage is the answer to so many things. Straights need to open thier eyes to government intrusion on our lives.
Modern marriages are crumbling because of the pressures modern life excerts on two people. Marriage need help.
So my wife and I have been shopping around for another husband and wife.
Not that we're swingers or poly's or gay or anything but if THAT's what it takes to get the shelves built, a pot holder hung, the living room painted, and a decent dinner cooked, then by damned I'll go gayer than Tom Cruise if I have to! Way gayer.
The rightwing nutbags are standing between me and my right to have a mowed lawn and tasteful wall paper!
I stand with you my Gay Brethren and ... er... Sistren?
posted by tkchrist at 11:46 PM on October 25, 2006
And. KirkJobSluder RULES!
Gay marriage is the answer to so many things. Straights need to open thier eyes to government intrusion on our lives.
Modern marriages are crumbling because of the pressures modern life excerts on two people. Marriage need help.
So my wife and I have been shopping around for another husband and wife.
Not that we're swingers or poly's or gay or anything but if THAT's what it takes to get the shelves built, a pot holder hung, the living room painted, and a decent dinner cooked, then by damned I'll go gayer than Tom Cruise if I have to! Way gayer.
The rightwing nutbags are standing between me and my right to have a mowed lawn and tasteful wall paper!
I stand with you my Gay Brethren and ... er... Sistren?
posted by tkchrist at 11:46 PM on October 25, 2006
mediareport: It's perfectly cromulent that lesbians can be elected in backasswards states: lesbians aren't viewed as a threat to men. Gay men, on the other hand, make the priests and councillors and representatives — all male in great majority — all a-quiver in fear.
posted by five fresh fish at 9:03 AM on October 26, 2006
posted by five fresh fish at 9:03 AM on October 26, 2006
It's funny how marriage has changed. The Pilgrims, conservative Christians beyond compare, considered marriage a purely civil matter to be performed by civil magistrates, not the Church.
posted by caddis at 9:19 AM on October 26, 2006
posted by caddis at 9:19 AM on October 26, 2006
The last progressive politician died in a plane crash in MInnesota years ago.
Wellstone voted for the DOMA.
posted by nickmark at 10:32 AM on October 26, 2006
Wellstone voted for the DOMA.
posted by nickmark at 10:32 AM on October 26, 2006
KirkJobSluder is my new hero. You are bang on. Preach it brother!
I absolutely agree with you saying that those who believe in equality need to advocate loudly, consistently, publicly, and at every opportunity. Absolutely.
Flagged as fantastic.
posted by raedyn at 12:58 PM on October 26, 2006
I absolutely agree with you saying that those who believe in equality need to advocate loudly, consistently, publicly, and at every opportunity. Absolutely.
Flagged as fantastic.
posted by raedyn at 12:58 PM on October 26, 2006
Do Rights of Marriage Equal Marriage?-- ...this overlooks the fact that a civil union law that gave same-sex couples access to all the state law rights of married couples would not just be preserving a "difference in name alone." It is a difference in status that disempowers same-sex couples from being able to argue that their union must be recognized in other jurisdictions and by the federal government, and, as Poritz pointed out in her dissent, that preserves an inequality in human dignity by its very separateness. ...
posted by amberglow at 2:11 PM on October 26, 2006
posted by amberglow at 2:11 PM on October 26, 2006
also from there: ...Democrats hold 47 of the state Assembly's 80 seats and 22 of the state Senate's 40 seats. Jon Corzine, the Democratic governor, said in press interviews following the decision that he would sign a gay marriage bill if it passed the Legislature.
...
You need majorities in both houses to get it passed and thru to the Governor in NJ, I believe, which means almost every single Democrat has to vote for it, which is unlikely, especially since they're all up for re-election next year. I'm not as thrilled as i was yesterday.
posted by amberglow at 2:17 PM on October 26, 2006
...
You need majorities in both houses to get it passed and thru to the Governor in NJ, I believe, which means almost every single Democrat has to vote for it, which is unlikely, especially since they're all up for re-election next year. I'm not as thrilled as i was yesterday.
posted by amberglow at 2:17 PM on October 26, 2006
fff: The "fuck you" to supposed liberals who blame gays for the 2004 loss still stands. To choose yet another bit of evidence, there was a ton of analysis of turnout rates in states with and without anti-gay ballot initiatives in that election, and none found evidence that the ballot initiatives dramatically increased turnout among Republican voters in those states.
Again, the issue is simple: Republicans pander to their base on this issue, while Democrats ran screaming from their base on the same issue. That's all the analysis you need, and it includes the prescription for turning the losses around. Hint: it's not ignoring or insulting gay voters again.
posted by mediareport at 3:02 PM on October 26, 2006
Again, the issue is simple: Republicans pander to their base on this issue, while Democrats ran screaming from their base on the same issue. That's all the analysis you need, and it includes the prescription for turning the losses around. Hint: it's not ignoring or insulting gay voters again.
posted by mediareport at 3:02 PM on October 26, 2006
Marriage has been obsolete ever Kinsey demonstrated that marriage is a one-size box that fits many very poorly, and the rest not-too-well.
But it'll be around until the last Las Vegas JOP is strangled with the guts of the last Right-Wing-Radio host.
posted by Twang at 12:25 AM on October 27, 2006
But it'll be around until the last Las Vegas JOP is strangled with the guts of the last Right-Wing-Radio host.
posted by Twang at 12:25 AM on October 27, 2006
"The last progressive politician died in a plane crash in Minnesota years ago."
Progressives leading the way again. Oh that I should live to see all the rest die ....
posted by Twang at 12:29 AM on October 27, 2006
Progressives leading the way again. Oh that I should live to see all the rest die ....
posted by Twang at 12:29 AM on October 27, 2006
WTF is wrong with you, Twang?
... This just isn't how the law works, and it is always so ironic -- and more than a little contempt-inspiring -- when people who proclaim to oppose "judicial activism" condemn a judicial decision based not on what the relevant constitutional law requires, but instead based on their personal opinion of the policy outcomes (or based on some informal "belief" about what courts should and shouldn't be "involved in," independent of what the Constitution requires). Such individuals are engaged in the very crux of the crime of judicial activism which they claim to despise (that is, deciding legal questions based not on law and precedent but on their own personal preferences).
Either the New Jersey State Constitution -- as defined by the governing precedents applying it -- compels the legal conclusion reached by the New Jersey Supreme Court or it does not. That is the only relevant issue. It's not a matter of picking and choosing which issues we think it would be nice for a court to resolve and which ones we'd sort of prefer -- given our subjective druthers -- the court leave to the will of the majority. ...
posted by amberglow at 2:30 PM on October 27, 2006
... This just isn't how the law works, and it is always so ironic -- and more than a little contempt-inspiring -- when people who proclaim to oppose "judicial activism" condemn a judicial decision based not on what the relevant constitutional law requires, but instead based on their personal opinion of the policy outcomes (or based on some informal "belief" about what courts should and shouldn't be "involved in," independent of what the Constitution requires). Such individuals are engaged in the very crux of the crime of judicial activism which they claim to despise (that is, deciding legal questions based not on law and precedent but on their own personal preferences).
Either the New Jersey State Constitution -- as defined by the governing precedents applying it -- compels the legal conclusion reached by the New Jersey Supreme Court or it does not. That is the only relevant issue. It's not a matter of picking and choosing which issues we think it would be nice for a court to resolve and which ones we'd sort of prefer -- given our subjective druthers -- the court leave to the will of the majority. ...
posted by amberglow at 2:30 PM on October 27, 2006
New Jersey Senate and Assembly Alphabetical List of Members
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 3:05 PM on October 27, 2006
posted by John Kenneth Fisher at 3:05 PM on October 27, 2006
Is it just me, or is Kirk saying that us straight folk who support gay marriage are idiots unless we act gay? That's kind of stupid :( I shouldn't have to pretend to be something I'm not just to get people to listen to a good point.
Other than that, though, I agree. This issue is just the latest iteration of the same old process concerning basic human rights, and should be treated as such.
posted by cyrusdogstar at 3:16 PM on October 27, 2006
Other than that, though, I agree. This issue is just the latest iteration of the same old process concerning basic human rights, and should be treated as such.
posted by cyrusdogstar at 3:16 PM on October 27, 2006
he's more saying he wants to see visible support, even if that misleads others into thinking you're gay, i think.
I want to see more support too--our elected politicians would be a start, and you guys always voting for those who support us as well, and speaking out against those everywhere who don't.
posted by amberglow at 10:28 AM on October 28, 2006
I want to see more support too--our elected politicians would be a start, and you guys always voting for those who support us as well, and speaking out against those everywhere who don't.
posted by amberglow at 10:28 AM on October 28, 2006
My gosh, whatever would I do if other people thought I was gay?
Oh, wait, I remember: I wouldn't give a shit. It's not like I'm exactly trying to win their sexual approval.
People care too damn much about others' genitalia.
posted by five fresh fish at 2:14 PM on October 28, 2006
Oh, wait, I remember: I wouldn't give a shit. It's not like I'm exactly trying to win their sexual approval.
People care too damn much about others' genitalia.
posted by five fresh fish at 2:14 PM on October 28, 2006
I like this cartoon. Praying to gonads, indeed.
posted by five fresh fish at 2:17 PM on October 28, 2006
posted by five fresh fish at 2:17 PM on October 28, 2006
In Canada, we have the province of Québec. In that province they have some laws that do not apply for the rest of Canada; and Canada has some laws that do not apply for Québec, IIRC. Mainly language, schooling, and religious laws, I think.
Works well enough for them, I suppose: they're the "French" province and certainly appear to have a unique way of doing things.
Why not the same for the US? The religious nutjob/LITB1 conservatives appear to flock together, down toward that southish/eastish area of the USA. Draw a line — heck, maybe a line along the Civil War area! — and simply apply federal laws differently between the two halves.
The North Will Rise Again!
1Leave it to Beaver, stereotype of idealized 1950s whitebread suburban family. Not based on reality.
posted by five fresh fish at 2:37 PM on October 28, 2006
Works well enough for them, I suppose: they're the "French" province and certainly appear to have a unique way of doing things.
Why not the same for the US? The religious nutjob/LITB1 conservatives appear to flock together, down toward that southish/eastish area of the USA. Draw a line — heck, maybe a line along the Civil War area! — and simply apply federal laws differently between the two halves.
The North Will Rise Again!
1Leave it to Beaver, stereotype of idealized 1950s whitebread suburban family. Not based on reality.
posted by five fresh fish at 2:37 PM on October 28, 2006
Your federal Charter applies even in Quebec, no? Our own Constitution is supposed to apply in all 50 states, not just some.
Why not the same for the US?
Because people and families who need these rights and benefits live in all 50 states, not just Blue States.
posted by amberglow at 3:23 PM on October 28, 2006
Why not the same for the US?
Because people and families who need these rights and benefits live in all 50 states, not just Blue States.
posted by amberglow at 3:23 PM on October 28, 2006
NYT Editorial today: ... All this is, as everyone knows, just a show for rousing the base. If the last month has taught us anything about the Republican Party, it is that homophobia is campaign strategy, not conviction. Congressmen who trust their careers to gay staffers vote for laws to enshrine second-class citizenship for gays in the Constitution. Gay appointees and their partners are treated as married people at official ceremonies and social gatherings. Then whenever an election rolls around, the whole team pretends it’s on a mission to save America from gay marriage. ...
posted by amberglow at 4:11 PM on October 28, 2006
posted by amberglow at 4:11 PM on October 28, 2006
I'm not entirely sure whether the Charter supercedes all Québec law, or whether it deals specifically with Québec alternatives. Or maybe I'm out to lunch...
posted by five fresh fish at 4:14 PM on October 28, 2006
posted by five fresh fish at 4:14 PM on October 28, 2006
let us know, fff---i believe the Charter applies to everyone everywhere--or at least it's supposed to. Isn't it what was used to legalize marriage there?
rudepundit: Queering the Election:
Well, at least we'll get to find out if the issue has any traction anymore. ...
posted by amberglow at 4:45 PM on October 28, 2006
rudepundit: Queering the Election:
Well, at least we'll get to find out if the issue has any traction anymore. ...
posted by amberglow at 4:45 PM on October 28, 2006
Well, hell, I guess I get to go look it up...
[putters]
'k, the wp word is
Anyway, looks like these days the Federal Charter supercedes Provincial Charters. Too, it's a simpler document that provides a foundational framework; Provincial law builds upon it.
So when our Federal judges decide the correct path toward a better society is a broader acceptance of people's private lives, and legalize gay marriage, the Provincial governments are pretty much obliged to fall in line eventually.
posted by five fresh fish at 8:13 PM on October 28, 2006
[putters]
'k, the wp word is
The notwithstanding clause authorizes governments to temporarily override the rights and freedoms in sections 2 and 7–15 for up to five years, subject to renewal.Which is the source of my confusion; there was a time when Québec was using it repeatedly.
Anyway, looks like these days the Federal Charter supercedes Provincial Charters. Too, it's a simpler document that provides a foundational framework; Provincial law builds upon it.
So when our Federal judges decide the correct path toward a better society is a broader acceptance of people's private lives, and legalize gay marriage, the Provincial governments are pretty much obliged to fall in line eventually.
posted by five fresh fish at 8:13 PM on October 28, 2006
We're Canadian: compelling a province to do something it doesn't want to do would be impolite.
posted by five fresh fish at 4:19 PM on October 29, 2006
posted by five fresh fish at 4:19 PM on October 29, 2006
President Bush has tried for months to define the midterm elections as a choice about two issues: taxes and terrorism. Now, with polls predicting bleak results for Republicans, he is trying to fire up his party by decrying gay marriage. ...
posted by amberglow at 3:55 PM on October 30, 2006
posted by amberglow at 3:55 PM on October 30, 2006
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Is this handing a redmeat issue to the GOP? fallout?
posted by amberglow at 12:31 PM on October 25, 2006