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Kinda embarrased by this question: As an extrovert who is slightly awkward: I'm having a little trouble dealing with the fact that 75% of my social hangouts are instigated by me. Logically, it should be ok-- when I reach out, more times than not, people want to hang out. Folks seem to have fun and repeat. But I feel like maybe I need to 'slow my roll?' I don't want to be awkward and overbearing. Am I thinking this way too much? Snowflakey details inside: [more inside]
posted by sandmanwv on Nov 7, 2017 - 14 answers

I moved to a new city (NYC) within the past 2 years and I am feeling a little lonely. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 2, 2016 - 20 answers

Last year, I unexpectedly fell in love with improv comedy. I raced through the classes, joined a team, and started performing shows on tiny stages throughout NYC. It's been a rewarding experience! Except: I'm a 32 year-old introvert, and hanging out with mid-20s performers feels weird AF. [more inside]
posted by dryersock on Oct 11, 2015 - 8 answers

renting to a group of friends - how to make this attractive to landlords [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2013 - 7 answers

I don't know where to meet people who are smart but not arrogant about it, or smart and also socially functional. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2012 - 22 answers

My partner recently moved to NYC from the Northwest. Help me help him (geeky, science-loving, and politically active) find friends that aren't already mine! [more inside]
posted by corb on Feb 21, 2012 - 21 answers

Where is the best city for a single male software developer to start over? (Excluding DC, which is where I am now) [more inside]
posted by villafoyager on Feb 8, 2012 - 35 answers

Despite my efforts (meetups, work), I don't really have a reliable circle of friends here. Any advice for meeting people? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2011 - 21 answers

I need to improve my social and relationship skills. Can anyone recommend a behavior therapist in NYC who does social skill training and takes Empire Blue Cross/Blue Shield? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 28, 2011 - 3 answers

I just broke up with my boyfriend and I am heartbroken and super lonely in New York City. How can I keep myself busy and meet new people? Help me out NYC Mefites/ breakup advice givers! [more inside]
posted by pulled_levers on Jul 5, 2009 - 30 answers

In NYC, and feeling very alone. What can I do to make new friends? [more inside]
posted by helios410 on Aug 8, 2008 - 13 answers

Please help me meet good people in NYC! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 12, 2008 - 16 answers

I'm moving from London to NYC in August. Although I am very excited, am also a bit nervous about not knowing anyone there. Any suggestions of group activities or places to go to meet laid-back folk? [more inside]
posted by heartofglass on Jun 9, 2007 - 17 answers

Yet another ‘how to make friends’ post [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 10, 2006 - 4 answers

FriendFindingFilter: Want to make some new friends this summer while living in Manhattan/Brooklyn...suggestions on venues, methods, etc? [more inside]
posted by weaponsgradecarp on Jul 9, 2006 - 9 answers