88 posts tagged with california by Anonymous.
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How do I apply to work for California state jobs?

I don't mean "please provide me a link as to how to read up on how to do it," because I have looked at all of those links, watched the videos, took notes, etc. Specifically I'd like personal stories/advice of how it went for you, how the testing process works, advice on things I can't find on Cal Careers, etc. Double bonus if anyone's used the LEAP program to do it. People I know IRL who I asked weren't very specific other than "just take the tests and get in." [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 15, 2023 - 2 answers

Divorce in California

My spouse and I are going to get divorced. It's amicable. We have some specific goals. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 18, 2023 - 8 answers

Did you have a respectful separation and/or divorce? What made it so?

My wife and I have mutually agreed to separate. There are no kids, little shared property (she owns our home - I will be moving out), and no shared debt. We love each other, but don't see a future together. We have had a lot of therapy. We want to move through separation with respect and care. Have you seen or done this? What advice can you offer? We are in California.
posted by anonymous on Sep 9, 2022 - 15 answers

Taking them to court - when I am far away from the court

How to deal with the court system in California, when I live in the EU? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 25, 2021 - 7 answers

Vaccine eligibility question

I am trying to figure out the honest answer to this "do I qualify for the vaccine" question. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 22, 2021 - 6 answers

Driving with an expired out-of-state license in Illinois?

So, it's been a really hard year, and I just realized that I have an expired California driver's license while residing in Illinois. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2020 - 10 answers

Broke, disabled and interested in becoming a So Cal therapist

I came close to completing an English degree many years ago, I was probably short a semester or two but I haven't looked up my transcripts. Now I want to become a therapist in the LA area, and my own therapist says I could possibly combine my time finishing my BA degree with my studies for an MFT degree, at the same school, and get the whole thing done in maybe a year and a half. I'm very broke and it's currently difficult for me to work due to disability, but I'm hoping there might be some scholarships or grants available for a disabled, 50+ therapy student. (Would it help that I'm a cancer survivor?) Due to my health I'd prefer to study online but I'll do what it takes to get this done. Unfortunately speed and cost are MAJOR considerations. Once I'm earning a living I may well go back for further schooling, but I need the simplest route to get myself started. I'm at the beginning of this process and I'd be very interested in any advice about affordable schooling, grants, scholarships, and other tips for the best route from here to where I want to be. I'd also appreciate suggestions for relevant forums or other places where I can ask questions.
posted by anonymous on Feb 20, 2020 - 7 answers

How to convince Cal SDI I shouldn't have claimed I could work?

YANML. Physically disabled. Employed but with significant accomodations. Laid off. Believed and presented myself as able/available to work. Recent diagnosis suggests I was wrong (and delusional) to do so. Califorbnia SDI is side-eying me. Which experts should I consult and what should I do to convince Cal SDI that I'm entitled to benefits from the point of layoff until I improve and/or SSDI kicks in? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 23, 2019 - 5 answers

Yet another psychiatrist recommendation request

I need to find a good psychiatrist in the CA bay area (northbay, city, or eastbay) as soon as I possibly can. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 28, 2019 - 1 answer

Surrendering baby for adoption in CA without father's "consent"

Unmarried 21F eight months pregnant wants to give baby up for adoption. Uninvolved father won't "consent" to the process...what now? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 5, 2019 - 10 answers

How to get recreational cannabis in Los Angeles legally as a visitor?

I'm traveling to CA, but reside in another state. I'm having trouble understanding the current laws and would like some suggestions if you have personal experience. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 11, 2018 - 7 answers

Maternity leave for State of CA employees

I'm applying for a job with a public agency at the State of California. I want to find out what their maternity leave policies are without disclosing my plans to get pregnant. Are these policies online somewhere? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 4, 2017 - 4 answers

Visiting Portland OR in order to decide whether to move there

My husband and I will have the chance to visit Portland OR in a couple of weeks for about 4 days (Saturday through Tuesday) as part of an in-person interview I have with a company up there. I am fairly confident of getting offered the job, but less confident on whether we want to move from the SF Bay Area to Portland or not. What should we do/see/experience in Portland over these four days to help us make this decision? What should we know about Portland before moving there? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 14, 2017 - 15 answers

Need to find a lawyer about a sublet and renter's insurance situation

I need help finding a lawyer. I have a complicated sublet situation, and I have questions about renter's insurance and personal liability. What kind of lawyer should I seek out? Do you have anybody whom you can recommend? I'm in San Francisco, CA. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 29, 2016 - 5 answers

Penalties for Smogging California?

In California what is the likely penalty for driving a car which has not passed its smog test? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 30, 2016 - 17 answers

Breaking out after moving to California?

I moved to California a week ago & since I got here I've been breaking out. I never break out. ??? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 19, 2016 - 16 answers

Looking for resources re: employer penalties and tip pool violations

I think my employer-structured tip-pool is not in line w/ California law, and I would like to find examples of penalties levied against bars/restaurants and their owners for violations of the relevant laws. YANML. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 23, 2016 - 1 answer

How rich do you have to be to move to the East Bay?

I'm rich. Am I rich enough to live in the Bay Area? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 29, 2015 - 32 answers

In Need of Resources for Relative with Bipolar I Disorder

A relative of mine is about to crash after a month-long manic episode. Our family has realized that a long-term care plan needs to manifest ASAP so our lives don't get torn apart every time said relative has an episode as bad as this. Can you recommend resources regarding rehab, disability insurance, and retirement (or lack thereof) for Bipolar I individuals in California? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 11, 2015 - 7 answers

I’m overwhelmed by the enormity of California. Where should I live?

I’m a school psychologist from the Northeast who’s looking to move to a city in California. Problem is I don’t know a thing about where to choose. Are there cities/regions in the state that I’d like to live in more than others? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 18, 2015 - 25 answers

Marijuana use in Oakland

I have some questions about (medical) marijuana use in Oakland. (Primarily about legality, but also a bonus question about drug interactions.) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 6, 2015 - 9 answers

Public transit between SFO and Middletown, CA

Is there any public bus, or other form of public transit, to get me from SFO to Middletown, California, and back again?
posted by anonymous on Apr 30, 2015 - 6 answers

Can a software company in California insist employees limit drinking?

Can a software company in California insist that employees participate in a system that limits drinking after hours? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 21, 2014 - 13 answers

Museum jobs in Los Angeles: tips, suggestions, advice?

Pretty basic: my partner and I are relocating from the East Coast to Los Angeles in July; I am hoping to find a job (or jobs) in one of LA's many fascinating cultural institutions. Primarily looking for positions in research, outreach, or education. I am looking for any suggestions as to listserves, forums, job posting boards, or other places where I can start looking for posted positions, as well as any local groups like the EMPs that I might be able to join once there. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 11, 2014 - 6 answers

Help me find an employment lawyer in Sacramento, CA

I am employed in Sacramento, California. I would like to speak to an attorney with experience in employment law, as related to overtime-exempt status. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on May 5, 2014 - 1 answer

Apartment recommendations in Silicon Valley

I'm moving to California from Michigan to take a job at HP. Do you have recommendations for a 2 bedroom apartment that meets my needs? Safety and dog walkability are prime concerns. Especially interested in perspectives on Prometheus Apartments Metropolitan and Americana. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 26, 2014 - 10 answers

How do I get a rough estimate of alimony in my upcoming divorce?

My wife and I are splitting up relatively amicably in the state of California. We'd both like to avoid a legal fight over money and income, but after some requests of hers that seem a little unreasonable, I'd like to get an assessment of how our income would roughly split up if we *did* go the legal route. Still, I'd rather avoid paying hundreds of dollars to a lawyer to figure that out. Is there some cheap way to get an extremely rough assessment of alimony? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 18, 2013 - 16 answers

Need lawyer recommendation for employment law in California

My employer, a large multinational based in CA, is letting me go under very dubious circumstances. I need a lawyer to help me understand my options. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 20, 2013 - 8 answers

Let me tell you how it will be: there's one for you, nineteen for me

SO has job offer 1800 miles away in beautiful California. Yesterday we were told by friends to expect over 50% of his salary to be taxed, leaving us with net income not far from what we make now in landlocked midwestern state. Should we be concerned about being destitute if we take this job and make the move to Ventura County? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Aug 19, 2013 - 25 answers

how to plan a San Fran wedding in 30 days or less

We just decided to get married in San Francisco, in about a month. Do you have any recommendations for a wedding planner who will help with venues and food? We are thinking of an outdoor ceremony followed by a dinner at a restaurant or catered venue. Or a boat cruise with decent food. We don't need flowers, music, dancing, invitations, decorations or seating arrangements. We basically need someone to suggest an available venue (and get the requisite permits if needed) and organize the food reception afterwards. This will be for about 20-30 guests. Any suggestions on a specific location, or for a wedding planner? The goal is something like a cross between eloping and a wedding. Fast and fun! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 15, 2013 - 6 answers

Group Health Insurance Options

I need group health insurance, but I don't know what my options are with the new potential changes in the law. I am in the East Bay, in California. Help? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 3, 2013 - 6 answers

Calculating California state income tax withholding

I feel like this should be really easy, but I'm coming up with a non-sensical result. I am considering taking a job that would involve a pay cut (long story, I promise it's worth it). I am trying to calculate what my actual paycheck would be. I'm using the paycheck calculator at Paycheckcity.com to figure this out. But the number it's giving me for California state income tax doesn't seem right. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 15, 2013 - 2 answers

How do I collect my small claims judgment from a wage claim?

My former employer mailed me my last paycheck almost a month after firing me, and after enduring an awkward hearing that included being scolded by her in front of a hearing officer, I ended up winning. How do I collect my money? I live in California. [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 6, 2013 - 1 answer

Severance pay, yay or nay?

Should I ask for severance pay in California? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Dec 5, 2012 - 11 answers

What are my best private health insurance options in California?

My wife is considering a job change, and the new one would no longer provide health insurance for me and our son. I'm an independent consultant. What are our best options for health insurance in California? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 10, 2012 - 5 answers

Should I lawyer up before my arraignment?

I’ve been charged with misdemeanor drug possession (11377) in California after accidentally going through airport security with .7 grams of meth on my person. My arraignment is next week; what can I expect and/or how should I prepare? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 20, 2012 - 23 answers

Good vascular surgeon/varicose vein doc in the Bay Area?

Does anyone know a good vascular surgeon/varicose vein specialist in the Bay Area? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 23, 2012 - 2 answers

Dogs on the I-5

Traveling from Seattle to Southern California with three dogs... looking for places along the road where we can stop and play! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 7, 2012 - 11 answers

Should I fight this ticket?

Please help me figure out how to contest a moving violation in California (Alameda county) [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Nov 2, 2011 - 21 answers

Does CA EDD care about my no-income 'job' at my S-Corp?

Terminated from a job in California, applying for unemployment. And I am an officer at a shambling, revenue-free California S-Corp. I have never taken a salary or distributions from it. The company has no employees or contractors. Do I still list the S-Corp on the unemployment application for Q. 33 Unemployment History? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Oct 3, 2011 - 2 answers

Moving from SF to Silicon Valley - need advice on cars and housing

So I've lived in beautiful San Francisco, California since 2005, but I've recently started a job down in Sunnyvale. I can take Caltrain down there, but it's an hour's trip plus half an hour on either end to get from home/work to the Caltrain station in question. This is not sustainable, so I'd like to move south. I'm 31, single, and a city boy from way back, so moving to The Suburbs gives me pause. Also, I sold the only car I've ever owned back in '05 shortly after I moved here. So I have two questions: [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Sep 19, 2011 - 10 answers

What is the best and most useful dental insurance for an individual living in California who is anticipating getting all his upper teeth pulled and falsies put in?

What is the best and most useful dental insurance for an individual living in California who is anticipating getting all his upper teeth pulled and falsies put in? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 31, 2011 - 3 answers

Is there hope for my brother?

Mentally ill brother is getting worse...and worse...and worse. What are our options? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jul 23, 2011 - 12 answers

What are some helpful tips for planning a beach wedding in La Jolla, CA on a budget?

My fiance and I have been together for almost four years. She wants to get married in her home town, probably on the beach in La Jolla. I've never been married before, and neither has she, and I guess what I'm wondering is... What are some resources I can use to estimate the cost and planning necessary?
posted by anonymous on May 2, 2011 - 12 answers

Do we need a Living Trust?

In California, what are the benefits of a Revocable Living Trust and a will? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 26, 2011 - 4 answers

Best OC neighborhoods for living & playing?

Help me find the most interesting and walkable neighborhoods in Orange County! [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Apr 20, 2011 - 7 answers

How can we move to California without relying on an inheritance?

How can I move to CA with or without an inheritance and not go broke? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Mar 24, 2011 - 20 answers

Gimme dem points

Starting a new traveling sales job. At what hotel chain should I throw all my business to? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Feb 7, 2011 - 20 answers

I swear I'm an upstanding citizen.

CA EDD (unemployment) thinks I committed fraud because I somehow didn't tell them about being out of town for the holidays correctly. How bad is this?? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 24, 2011 - 5 answers

Loading up the truck and move on to Bev-- er, Oxnard.

I'm considering a move from middle America to the northern Los Angeles, CA region. What do I need to know? [more inside]
posted by anonymous on Jan 15, 2011 - 26 answers

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